If girls apparently respect authenticity & being a "REAL & HONEST guy" then why do girls purposely avoid me?

[Anonymous]

I'm an unattractive guy who's somewhat poor & I carry myself with a very blunt, pessimistic, sarcastic attitude

I tell it like it is whether it be good or bad from my side & everyone else

I call out on both genders hypocrisy & refuse to assimilate or copy anything they do

I don't simp (give compliments,$$$, gifts) or get along with toxic men

But even with thes traits I'm not really seen as "REAL" or a "guys guy"

[Nash62826]

My friend re-read what u jus typed again I think the answer might hit you. Reason 1 says that ur and ass, reason w says that u lack consideration, reason 3 ur empathetic and not quick to change yes mind I'm getting so that's a plus I guess, reason 3 t wouldn't u compliment your girlfriend u don't have to give her money I understand it struggling but the doesn't have to be expensive pick her some flowers, but her candy or a freaking perfume, lip balm or a head tie and reason 4 it just seems like ur blaming girls for singleness and not recognising ur own faults. Let's say u have a car u don't want it to be fine one second then breakdown the next not easily change, I want it to take u places that's it's gift to U, I want people to say nice stuff about it because complimenting the car is like complimenting the owner and lastly u want it to be comfortable to ride in right u don't want it jiggling and feeling like a blunt for from a kick will take it down.

[misogynistic_pig]

Women do not value any of those things you say, if you do not attract women it is precisely because you are poor and unattractive.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say "attract" but many have gone out of their way to start drama which forces me to acknowledge them

You would think they would avoid me but SOME haven't

[Guy13]

You are to effeminate? They want all that in a manly man

[Asker]

I participated in sports & have an affinity towards gun culture (sports mainly)

I lift more than my bodyweight & in great shape

[Guy13]

So… that doesn’t mean you have the Stuff to intrigue, lure, maintain, keep a woman interested. You could be a pin-up poster, model, or actor and be the same perceived unable to lead guy 🤷🏻‍♂️ Could be not too🤷🏻‍♂️

[LazerBean]

Because people generally avoid negative people.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

And yet you aren’t single

[LazerBean]

Exactly I'm not negative I'm just right.