Would my friend be mad at me for following her boyfriend friend then ignoring his message?

[Anonymous]

I went through my Instagram following and just accepted loads of requests and followed back. After he messaged hey. I forgot to reply to it. I’ve never spoke to this guy or have any connections to him other than he’s my friends boyfriend friends.

I don’t even know if she’d know maybe this friend told her boyfriend by the way your friends friend followed me I messaged. But this guys weird he messages everyone I can’t see him telling his friend

But wiuld she be mad at that, does that seem like I led him on?

Be mad

She wouldn’t be

[HollyK21]

Sounds like you’re overthinking. I don't know why your friend would be mad for not talking to her boyfriend's friend. Even if for some ridiculous reason she were mad, I personally wouldn’t care. I’m not obligated to carry on with anyone that I don’t want to, and neither are you.

[Asker]

But the fact I followed him, I was going through my request and I think he requested me or maybe he was in the you might know someone bit but surely if he takes that as me trying with it that’s crazy, I followed him after seeing him out on a night out surely that’s not saying I want him right? I’d not see it as that

[Guy13]

I would be as it is clear you are trying to get inside his head. And it is very obvious when the message is ignored that you know that it is wrong...

[Asker]

How would I be trying to get in his head?
That’s a bit far to expect that?

[Asker]

All of my other friends follow him too even in relationships
It’s not like a matched on tinder or message him first I literally responded to some follower requests I had

[Guy13]

I don’t know any close girlfriends that follow their boyfriends. The women I know would pull away from a relationship with a girl who did that. 🤷🏻‍♂️ That opinion comes from listening to women who have had girlfriend try to break them up through him or her…trying to create self-doubt.

[Asker]

You’ve not understood the question at all

[Guy13]

Alright. sorry.

[DailyAsk]

Ehh, live your life. If you want dk go get dk.

[Asker]

But I don’t that’s the thing why are guys on this taking that as me saying this? If I said hi to him to I want him too?