How can I find a boyfriend to spend Christmas with me?

[Anonymous]

I’m 25 and I have never spent chritmas with a guy and met his family. It’s my biggest dream experience holidays at each other’s families house. This year I’ll be alone at home , next year at 26 I want taste first time having a boyfriend celebrate with me and family. How can I get that? One guy ik 5 years and dated 2 years neevr let me meet his family. He spends holidays alone with mom and sister with her boyfriend they all live together. He say excuse like we aren’t married & go spend it with friends or not to care about spending it alone with my family and their bfs. My entire family bring a boyfriend or husband to celebrate holidays. It’s to point I’m a retard and only one with no man to the party. No guy is racing to date me and meet parents. Do I need find a highscool guy that’s eager meet parents as all men my age already have experience meeting parents?

[mobiusforniner]

Count yourself lucky. Going to Christmas parties with in laws is like nails on a chalkboard. Everyone has their own "traditions" and quintessential picture of what the holiday should be like, that in most cases it ends with butt hurt relatives, passive aggressive responses, and overall anxiety.

My ideal Christmas morning is waking up to a crisp and cold day, making a cup of coffee, playing some Christmas songs on my piano, listening to my kids wake up all excited and tear apart present wrappings. No "lets wait for grandma a to get dressed", or "why isn't bobby happy with his new sweater", "your kids need to be more appreciative"...

[Luckycharms12]

Because you are in Rush Christmas isn't far away that's moving to soon

[Asker]

But dating guy 2 years isn’t moving too soon lol. It’s ridiculous again I don’t meet his family chritmas

[Luckycharms12]

Well maybe he felt it was or just wanted personal time with his family. I think you should have asked him can you come too

[Asker]

How 2 years is too soon? Lol ebeyone meets parents in a month or 3 months

[Asker]

Everyone in my family spends holidays with a guy. No guy is saying they want personal time with family and avoid girlfriend

[Luckycharms12]

That's your family every family is different. Plus worrying about who meets parents in 3 months.

[Asker]

No girl dates guy 5 years n never meets fmaily.

[Asker]

If u ask any girl they all meet family fast. U meet family in one month or 6 months or one year. Even 2 months u meet family

[Luckycharms12]

Not with me that never happened that fast will not happen that fast. Or any of my friends

[Asker]

2 years is too fast for u?

[Luckycharms12]

Ya spend Christmas with my family ya takes over a year to meet them .

[Asker]

One person told me they met parents on first date. I want meet parents fast I will find a random guy this month to be my boyfriend even if I don’t love him

[Luckycharms12]

Then you are missing the point completely

[Asker]

No girl waits 5-10 years to meet family. 😓 no girl is alone holidays all girls have guy babies meet fucking family ! Y sound like a guy that runs away from meeting family 😓

[Luckycharms12]

What are you talking about