Is this male true with wanting to be with me and he even started talking about marriage with me and he has asked if I would like to look at rings ?

[Anonymous]

Do men who are usually instrested in a relationship with a women. Actually tell her (me) that he will do whatever it takes to make sure I can have my best health care and he actually is talking about wanting to come and drive from Michigan to Illinois to pick me up and have me spend time together like at his house? He and I have been talking and he has been busy with work yet every time he does have time he calls me and videos chats with me and he even had me video chat with own family like his sister actually seems nice towards me. Yet I know he is very much excited for us to be together.

[kylee2437]

Ummmmm what makes you so special that he’s willing to travel to you and then drive to his house to then drop you off back at your house once he’s done with you? It seems unsafe to me. You definitely shouldn’t let a random man from a different state just pick you up and bring you back to a state you are unfamiliar with. I would block him asap. Something is wrong with him where he can’t find local women

[Asker]

Seems like you are questioning why he won't be happy to have a female who he has been into. Wanting since maybe the female in his state are not into sexual experience or things that he was searching for.

[kylee2437]

@asker that doesn’t mean the situation overall doesn’t seem safe in the least bit. It’s very suspicious that he’s willing to put in ALL that effort because he doesn’t want to stay in the town you are from. Very odd.

[ConfusedGirl100]

If he is saying all of this without even having met you or without having known you for long, nope they don't tend to mean what they say.

[Guy13]

Sounds by like a sincere interest but watch out for Love bombing 💣