Many times women respond with "I don't want attention, I dress myself this way because I wanna look good for myself not for the attention of men.
Now to what extent is this true?
The reason I ask is because it just kinda seems like a false dichotomy. Where you either Dress for yourself or dress for others. I don't understand why there can't be a such thing as a nuanced reason and the reason doesn't have to be black and white.
I mean as humans we like approval, we like being seen as attractive, we like people appreciating our look whether your male or female. I mean can't you both dress for yourself but at the same time wanna be seen as attractive by others? I mean it's a human instinct, it's natural to wanna look good for others.
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