I love my fiancé he's my best friend but when we first started dating i was fat and we had sex all the time now i have lost 30 lbs and he barely touches me im starting to feel unattractive undesirable like he would rather use his hand its been over a month since we had sex everytime i try to to talk about it he's like stop or when he comes home early from work he plays games all night long then does whatever in the bathroom for 30min tells me to go to sleep i feel unwanted he says he loves me i dont feel like he does whats the point of our relationship if he never wants to be intimate with me i quite my job to stay home for him i just dont understand whats wrong with me
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So now he's calling other women cute and he thinks i wouldn't find out
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Ma'am what about your sexual desire?
My wants and needs dont matter he says he has to do it he trained himself if he doesn’t he flirts with other women what i want doesn’t matter to him he says will do it but we never do i feel like lim living with a roommate not a spouse
God damn...
If you don't mind than can I asked last time when you had sex?
I dont care that he watches it i care about how often he does I've said there's no point of having me around he's like thats not true when i act like his mother i dont feel loved sure hell buy me expensive gifts but i want intimacy i feel pathetic that im the only one trying
Its been a month around Halloween
He last longer when he watches porn then when we do the deed i never get off in the beginning he would try now he doesn’t even try
Wtf...
Why don't you have secret sexual relationship? You deserve sexual pleasure. We all deserve. Bro why you even living with this guy?
I don't know if its something i did when i do everything for him i cook clean take care of the dog but i feel like im ugly and worthless i just dont have a clue on what to do
Ma'am you're giving your best...
Trust me you deserve better.
Please pm me
And you're still with him..
Nice 😊