Ex keeps unblocking me & coming back to me?

[Anonymous]

My ex whom I’ve been dealing with since middle school just won’t up, if she knows there’s other guys out there to date & plenty of friends for her to talk to including her having a big family to communicate with. Why dose she want to talk to me? Why dose she keep coming back to me after all these years? We got into an argument & I told her to never contact me ever again & some time later on she contacted me even after I told her to don’t contact me. What is it about me that makes her gravitate towards me knowing that there’s other people out there in the world that wants to be around her and date her & she just picks me out of everyone without me even knowing. She just pops up out of knowing trying to talk to me each time when we are on bad terms.

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She also says that in other relationships she been in while we weren’t seeing eye to eye, she says that “ I get on her mind while she’s with other people “ & that “ I’m more soild & she never met anyone like me before “ as of today we’re trying to work the relationship out a couple things came up so she told me she needed some space & we can build up a more healthy relationship when she feels better.

[bolverk]

She sees you as a challenge, you rejected her so she's chasing you even if it is sporadic, but you are still allowing was for her to contact you, If you really do not want any contact with her, block her on all social media, change your phone number if you already not done so, and block her number on that phone as she will try to get your new number from friends you share it with.

[Avicenna]

Because it’s familiar and because she thinks she can change your mind

[sheikalana]

She keeps coming back because you allow her to come back. You either tell her you don't want any time of communication or you block her for good.

[Guy13]

Ignore her... Simple !!

[Nikki1989]

Can't you just ignore her?

[Asker]

I’ve tried for years ! She just won’t let up. But currently we’re trying to fix the relationship

[dustybiker]

Stop reacting to her.

[Asker]

She even said she thought about me while being in other relationships this has been going on since 2020 she’ll tell me “you get on my mind “ she’s been saying this since 2020.

[dustybiker]

If you want her back tell her.

[Asker]

You’re a girl right? So if you know from a female stand point Can you tell me why she dose this so much? What is it about me? I did in fact asked her why she keeps doing this she said “ im more soild & she never met anyone like me “

[dustybiker]

She probably has a fear of being alone, so keeping you as back-up.

[Asker]

Back-up? So it’s not genuine

[dustybiker]

I would make the educated guess that you are being used.

[Nightmarerh]

But isn’t she used up already? Why would I want to be the second option?

[Nightmarerh]

Maybe block her if you can move on easily