my boyfriend said to me that I haven't been as active in the gym as I usually am. I haven't gone for a couple of months but I have been walking occasionally and I eat pretty clean.
He said that he would like it if I went more because he said that as a man physical attraction matters to him and he wants me to get to the best version of myself. He said on his end as a man he is doing his best to meet the needs I would want from him such as having vision , hard work.
He asked me if I would want him to stay in the same position he is in , with this career and financially and I said no, I would expect him to grow over time. He used this as a way to explain how he wouldn't want me to stay in the same place with my physical well being, with toning up and being more active.
I did not really take the conversation well, was his point valid?