Statement: 'I wish to have a bodycount of 1 at the end of my life. (my significant other)'' Agree?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Voted A. Somewhat to my own surprise, when I stopped to count it out, I have had 14 sexual partners.

To start, I lost my virginity to my high school girlfriend when I was 16 and she was 15. I have also had 5 one night stands and one, what would be called today - though I don't think the phrase had been coined at that point (I was in college) one "friends with benefits." That lasted about 8 months.

Frankly, this also resulted in 6 pregnancies. One of which ended in a miscarriage. Three of which were with my current live-in girlfriend of 11 years, with whom I have two little boys and my little princess. (The first two were unplanned pregnancies. The third was planned.) My girlfriend and I love each other, she is the center of my universe, and have talked about marriage but in some weird way we feel like a big ceremony and an expensive ring would just cheapen what we have.

Also, I was contacted about two years ago by a woman with whom I had a one night stand. We did not know each other well, frankly, but we had an amazing night and, it turns out, I got her pregnant,

The thing is that she decided not to tell me and raise the baby on her own. However, as he became a teenager she decided that her child needed to know his father. So she tracked me down two years ago and now I have a 14 year old son. (My other children are 10, 9 and 7.) I am very proud of him and although it was awkward to start, we have grown quite close.

The only one I regret is a girl I dated just out of college. I got her pregnant and at first she seemed really excited - and I was, for sure. Then she changed her mind and - long story short - had an abortion without telling me. It is the most painful thing I have ever known and I miss so much the baby I never got to hold in my arms. Honestly, sappy as it sounds, when I think about that baby, it still brings tears to my eyes.

So I got off topic a bit, but there it is. Frankly, it is perfectly natural for a man to have sex. Nature made us with the instinct to implant our sperm in a female and make offspring that carry on our DNA. So we need it - not like our lives depended on it - but for emotional health and our sense of our own manhood. So other than the one case, I have no regrets and right now, with my girlfriend and our three children and my son, I have never been happier and cannot imagine my life without them.

Still, I won't lie. I have to admit that when I look back and think that I have had 14 sexual partners and 6 pregnancies - 5 of which were unplanned - gotta admit that I am a little surprised at the number... and also a little, even though I know it is silly and maybe a bit egomaniacal, a little proud of myself.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I only had sex with three other women and one was a one time thing. I do not really regret this and it just gives me some perspective on what is a good relationship.

MendaciousMarxist · Accepted Answer

I disagree, I have felt around 60 dicks in my life and those are 60 dicks I am glad to have experienced. virgins don't know what they're missing lmfao

Tyrael · Answer

That ship's already sailed. I've got a body count around 9 or 10 but I can't see it getting much higher than that.

es20490446e · Answer

I liked to have a long term girlfriend from date one, but it didn't happen. Hence I just accept the goods that sex brought me, although not really worth it.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

1 lifelong partner who lives as long as me is preferred.

Twalli · Answer

I probably will die with a body count of one, but I didn't expect to when I had sex with my girlfriend.

OfDeath · Answer

Lol that ship has not only sailed, it's a wreck on the bottom of the sea.

Anonymous · Answer

Screw that, I am here to live my life to the fullest.

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