If my boyfriend cheated and agree to giving me a hall pass does this mean he's remorseful?

[Anonymous]

I told him the only way I'll consider it (though might break up soon, don't know) is if I get to screw an attractive guy (at random) and he doesn't get to ask who nor any questions. What's good for the goose is good for the gander after all.

Given the stud/sloot double standard still exists, I'm surprised he agreed to giving me a hall pass for this one time. Does this mean he's remorseful? I just want to get back at him. I don't care about who the random guy will be; this is just to get even with him.

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1 y

My boyfriend thinks he deserves it for what he did and is supposedly trying to be fair. I've never had casual, random sex before. I'll just be doing it to get back at him.

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1 y

Nevermind. I just found out he fucked my now ex best friend too. I hate him at this point. I hate him.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I’d more take it as no respect for you or your relationship. That “hall pass” bs isn’t the way to fix a failing relationship, it’ll only make things worse..

the only pass you should be thinking of is passing on this relationship

[Asker]

Actually I just got rid of two people in my life. I posted the update. I found out he also cheated with my best friend... now ex best friend. It really sucks because she was my friend I had known since 7th grade.
I don't know how to be upset and feel disgusted more with, him or her.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

They both knew, so they both at fault and even though it hurts now you’re better off without people like that in your life… good luck.. hope things get better for you

[Anonymous]

First off your boyfriend doesn't care about you at all. He just wants you to fuck some other guy to shut you up. Secondly, the fact that you would even consider doing it feels like you're really just a slut like him and this relationship is going straight in the toilet.

[Asker]

I hate what my boyfriend did. I hate that he cheated. I hate that I've always been raised to have dignity, values, morals, how the right man will come if I just wait and tried living my life the right way only for it to all to blow up in my face.
I don't even know how having casual, random sex without any feelings is like. I've never done that in my life. All I'm thinking about is pure anger, hurt and revenge.

[Opinion Owner]

I know how you feel, trust me I've been through it, but a person who will cheat on you doesn't really value you unfortunately. The concept of getting revenge by cheating back won't have the same effect because he really doesn't care. If anything it just get's him off the hook and he gets to keep you and keep cheating.
Cheaters aren't remorseful, if he cared he wouldn't have even done it.

[Asker]

I just got an update. Bad news. He also fucked one of my best friend. I had known her since 7th grade. So now I have to get rid of both of them.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry to hear that, just be thankful that you don't have children with that guy and you can still cut him out of your life completely and move on. In my situation I was married to the cheater and forever tied to her through our child. There's no getting rid of her completely for me.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm glad nothing is bonding me to him. Sorry to hear about your situation. Sorry to hear your child has a cheater for a mother. Tough situation.

[aaron210419]

Respect yourself and save yourself the petty games, get rid of him and be the bigger person. Cheating is a complete lack of respect and "giving you a hall pass" is a toxic resolution.

[Asker]

See update. I just got rid of two people; both him and my ex best friend.

[aaron210419]

I'm sorry, I know how it feels to be cheated on just know it's more about them than it is you. Don't fall into the trap of believing that you deserved it or it's your fault in any way. Keep your head up, not everyone is like that and I'm sure that as long as you stay true to your values that you'll end up just fine.

[ShellyB]

This does not sound healthy, I would recommend just breaking up w him. JMO!

[Asker]

After what I had just posted on my update yes. I hate him at this point. I had known my now ex best friend since 7th grade and he fucked her too.

[Zezzara]

I just read everything. It's been more than a week. How are you feeling? Hope you are feeling better.

[Asker]

Read the updates. I never did the hall pass. I actually already dumped him. He also cheated with my former best friend from 7th grade. I got rid of both of them.

[dustybiker]

Ridiculous. If this makes sense to you, you both deserve each other.

[Asker]

Actually what I just found out stopped me from doing it. I guess it was destiny or fate that my revenge would never be done.
Read my update. Now I officially hate him and my best friend. I hate them both.

[dustybiker]

You’re boyfriend just wanted to feel better by forcing you to cheat on him too, then you would have felt worthless too. His motives were selfish before you found out about your friend.

Think of this as life showing the true colors of these two people. Get out there and find better.

[inhua]

no he isn't remorseful. an eye for an eye isn't the way to go.

[Asker]

You got it correct. I got an update. Something I found out and it's bad news. Now I can't even stand looking at him in the face. I hate him.

[Berethor]

So he allow you to be a ho, how kind of him, you better break-up with him I say.

[Asker]

I wanted revenge for I don't think it's even worth it after the update below. I hate him at this point.

[Berethor]

I see, you right to hate him, if you was pimped by him it would done more harm than good.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't sound like a adult relationship even if my partner cheated and would give me a hall pass I would strongly refuse that cause I want my relationship to be stable if I decided to stay with him.

[Asker]

Look at the recent update. I just found out about it. Bad news.

[Drumlin2001]

That's not a healthy situation. Two wrongs don't make a right. You're better off parting ways

[Asker]

I did. As my update said, he also cheated with my best friend (well now ex best friend). Both of them have been dumped.
I don't know who to more disgusted and anger with, him or her. I hate them both.

[Z1pTD]

Either means he's remorseful, fair, or doesnr give af

[Asker]

It was the last on your sentence. He doesn't know. I just posted an update. He also fucked one of my best friends. I had known her since 7th grade. I hate him. I hate them both.

[HelpaGuy23]

He doesn’t care about you at all. For 2 reasons:

1. he cheated on you

2. he’d let some other guy fuck you.

[HoneyButterCup525]

I agree what he said.

[Asker]

you were right. he doesn't give a damn about me and he can now fuck himself. You can read the update I just posted. He fucked my best friend too.

[Anonymous]

Who the fuck calls it "hall pass"? What a society of degenerates.

[Asker]

He can go fuck himself by now. I just posted on my update. Just found out he fucked my best friend (now ex best friend) too.

[Opinion Owner]

What he did is unforgivable indeed. You don't deserve either of these 2 scumbags. They belong to each other. Send him packing to her.

[Guy13]

It is a Test.

[Asker]

I was going to have revenge until I just found out the latest news. Read the update. Disgusting. Now I have to get rid of two people in my life; him and my ex best friend.

[Guy13]

YOu mean you hate all men the LEAST of all him... you still love him a little !!! 6 months no penis and no pain. Take a break from all men. Your head and heart is rattled. So sorry as that was the most shitty thing ever on both people part. Better find out now than later !!!

[Asker]

I do not hate all men. That would be idiotic. Why would innocent people pay for a scumbag? I only hate him and my ex best friend.

[Guy13]

Alright. YOU ARE BETTER person than I am... Cause all you B- and cheating C- would be the same to me..

[Asker]

Why hate other innocent people who have nothing to do with the cheater? If someone cheated on you, why should all of us be the same? The cheater is the scumbag who did the wrong.

[Guy13]

You are better person than I am as I would hate all you B-.

[Anonymous]

wow you're a fucking piece of shit you don't care who the random guy will be what if that random guy has been hurt bad in the past do you think he needs to be hurt again by you being a whore?

[Asker]

Fuck you. So I should continue being a faithful girlfriend to a cheater? He cheated. I didn't.

[Asker]

I knew the stupid double standard still goes on. You guys can cheat and don't get called out but omg a woman has to still be pure, still stay with him.
When I got in my relationship, I thought I had an honest person with integrity, not a cheater.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey asshole I got cheated on numerous times by my scumbag girlfriend but I never cheated on the fucking bitch I never cheated on that fucking witch

[Opinion Owner]

I took the higher ground and didn't cheat on the fucking piece of shit

[Opinion Owner]

so you can shove your double standard excuse up your fucking ass. you want to cheat go ahead be a piece of shit but you'll be no better than him

[Asker]

I guess destiny (or fate) didn't want me to go with revenge after all. After the update (just found out it), I don't want him. I hate him. He screwed my best friend (now ex best friend) too. I hate him. I hate them both.

[panamared1]

that or he may want an open relationship

[Asker]

Update. I dumped him and my ex best friend. He cheated with my best friend too.