Everytime I tried talking about my feeling, either I got ignored, I was made strongly notice that it was annoying. So now I shut the fuck up and pretend.
Remember, people don't want to know how you feel, they ask you out of politeness, and expect you to say you're fine. They don't want to know that you don't feel good, they don't care.
I'm a dude, I'm suppose to suppress my emotions, you on the other hand, you should vent because it's normal and it's expected for you to do so and you shouldn't have trouble doing so, when I do vent it's my bros tho
@MCheetah lol nah she means feelings, something men should suppress. It's plain bitchassness it's not honesty. Theirs amillion things wrong with this earth yet men will bitch about the smallest things which is unmanly. If the world turned into a apocalypse tommrow, all the weak men will die. Men had to go fight the lions and the bigger creatures before the dawn of men, they didn't get to cry and bitch and stomp there feet like today's males.
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I have trouble initiating those type of conversations but if someone asks me I'm honest about how I feel.
Everytime I tried talking about my feeling, either I got ignored, I was made strongly notice that it was annoying. So now I shut the fuck up and pretend.
Remember, people don't want to know how you feel, they ask you out of politeness, and expect you to say you're fine. They don't want to know that you don't feel good, they don't care.
I'm a dude, I'm suppose to suppress my emotions, you on the other hand, you should vent because it's normal and it's expected for you to do so and you shouldn't have trouble doing so, when I do vent it's my bros tho
not at all, no...
not since I started a gradual process of self-introspection and growth, which is something I started about 20 years ago
maybe I had trouble with it 20 years ago, but not today...
Yeah kinda, but for me I think it’s more of struggling to trust someone enough to open up and be honest about it
Sometimes I do because usually people don't listen. I just give up and think "what's the point if they're just ignored."
I used to be much more closed off. Still working on it but if someone asks I can do a good job of sharing how I feel
I do. Not because I have trouble expressing myself, but because I suppress my feelings so I am usually not sure what they are.
It's absolutely normal. Everyone has their own way to express. Words aren't always necessary.
Most of the times I do not have any problems, but once in a while when my emotions are very raw, I find it difficult to express them.
It's not my favorite thing to do. Just typing that hurt.
Sometimes, it depends on the subject cause I don’t want to whine…
No, I just do it not the Filthy Casual way so one would probably assume I do
I'm neurodivergent, so it can be difficult. I'm here if you need someone to listen.
I am popular for not having a filter, when I talk.
I am a man and I will not speak about feelings, this is a female trait if you ask me lol
I think they mean honesty and not being shy, not necessarily being a mushy "sensitive" male.
@MCheetah lol nah she means feelings, something men should suppress. It's plain bitchassness it's not honesty. Theirs amillion things wrong with this earth yet men will bitch about the smallest things which is unmanly. If the world turned into a apocalypse tommrow, all the weak men will die. Men had to go fight the lions and the bigger creatures before the dawn of men, they didn't get to cry and bitch and stomp there feet like today's males.
Yes I struggle with this sometimes too.
Nope. I speak my mind
No, I'm usually very good at it.
Yes I do and especially right now.