My girlfriend of 6 years left me and it's all my fault. I took everything for granted and made her wait too much. I think the old saying ''You never realized what you have until it's gone'' it's true and I'm paying it dearly.
I've already admitted my wrong, asked her the question and she said no. She wants me to leave her alone and said I had my chance many times but now it's too late. I'm truly sorry. I want her in my life. I will give her a family, honestly.
Is there some way to have her back? Any way to make her say yes to me? Any way? Did I lose her for good? Any hope?
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There has to be a way. I've never fought to win someone back before. I'm ready to give her what she wanted, give it all up for her but she's refusing me.
I would do anything to go back in time and commit sooner, not make her wait too much. Would do anything to travel back in time.
I would do anything to go back in time and commit sooner, not make her wait too much. Would do anything to travel back in time.
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Well first, if you were serious you would not have asked this question anonymously. But I guarantee you that if this is real, that she did give you plenty of chances, and you squandered every one of them. Use this as a valuable lesson, next time a woman says “okay, ONE LAST CHANCE”! friggin’ believe her! There is no hope, it’s over leave her alone, no the is NO hope… well for you, she will live happily ever after and probably will be happy with someone else in a week or so. You’d be amazed at how easy it is for us to get a really good man.
sounds like that would be a hard no.
The more you try the more she will distance herself from you, and at some point, it just becomes creepy and pathetic.
Just get on with your life, learn from the experience and don't make the same mistakes again.
You had your chance, and you blew it.
Life sucks, but it goes on with or without you.
So, load up your wallet with 5-dollar bills, grab a couple of friends and go to a nudie bar.
Give her space. Some women need space and time to come back around.
Ok. Then I can propose again? I'm ready for her. I'm opening my gate already. I'm ready when she is, if she wants to come back.
If she wants me to keep fighting for her and ask her a couple times more, I don't mind. I'm really sorry for taking the relationship for granted and making her wait too long. I messed up.
Write a detailed and appreciative hand written letter and give it to her or mail it.. then give her space and time. Don't say the same old "I'll change, i won't do it again" crap. Explain how you made a mistake, you were scared and why, how much you love her and why, make her feel special, say you want to be a better man and will be.. stuff like that.. but mean it. She will read it and think on it a lot. I know it probably seems dumb but hand written letters seem to touch more and stay in the mind. If you have a picture of the two of you together put it inside. Preferably wallet size. If you cry while writing try to get a drop on the ink.
I would hold on the proposal until you know she wants to try again. Whatever you do, don't show anger toward her if she needs time.
Thank you. Will do that. I've never missed someone so badly, fought fought this badly before.
I wish you the best 🙏