Does my roommate sees me as a potential partner/is interested?

[Tedoloration]

I have a new roommate (2 room apartment). She will move in the next days but came very often to hang out with me or brings furniture, etc. for her new room. We got along very well relatively quickly and ''vibed'' (she also told her friends that) as she said. In a few evenings together, we noticed that we have a lot in common and also tick similarly and she said that. One evening she asked me if I was single and would like to have children someday and also said ''this is a bit like dating''. She also suggested, that we could watch movies or series. Then we had an exchange about our love life and I found out that she has ended a 3-year relationship 2 months ago, so she said straight away that she didn't want to have a relationship for the time being (which I think is super reasonable!) and doesn't have time for that either, so of course I then asked which types she likes, and she said that she doesn't really have a type, but that inner values are more important, but it's "important" to her that the person comes from a Russian-speaking area - but isn't that somewhat contradictory? During the conversation we came across dating apps and suggested me using Bumble and so on. Maybe she wants to set me up with someone in her circle of friends, but then she wouldn't say we have a lot in common and stuff. The whole thing is just super confusing and I don't want it to escalate because we already get along very well but I would not mind if this friendship could go anywhere. Am I imagining things or does she already see me as a potential partner?

[DoctorSex]

This is going to be of no help to you in relation to the girl in question, so sorry for that. I'm going to speak more generally to all males.

You're a young man so allow me to talk to you as a male who's 10 years you're elder and has always won when it comes to women. If I point at a woman 👉 and say, "you're Mine". She begins to pick out her wedding dress. That's how it should be, not you wondering whether she likes you or not.

So here goes... Women react to your rhythm as a male. . Most males have no clue just how much power they have over women when they control their rhythm, and women for dam sure will not tell you!
But every woman knows it and secretly, you know it as well.
You know when a confident, eloquent masculine man walks into the room, those guys who aren't as masculine and smoothe, and who have girlfriends, begin to get very nervous.

My hope for all males that follow my guidance, is that they get out of the mindset of wondering if women like them or not, and focus on the development of their own masculinity which forms the beacon that attracts women subconsciously.

Ergo, it's never about her, it's about you.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Summeroflove]

Well irs definitely possible. Maybe she isn’t. But it seems to be she is. Depends on how you feel about this. If you feel indifferent, you like her, or you’re uncomfortable

[Tedoloration]

What makes you say that she seems to be interested? I’m quite confused..

[Tedoloration]

What does irs means?

[Summeroflove]

Well based off some od the stuff you said. I can’t read her mind though. So I don’t know for sure.

[Summeroflove]

If she’s saying things like “it’s a bit like dating”

How do you feel about her? Do you like her or does she make you uncomfortable?

[Tedoloration]

Well it just came out of the blue when she said, its like we are dating. But yeah, I like her

[Summeroflove]

Well. I think maybe you should express your feelings with her. Honestly it might be hard to do and I understand why. But I think you have a chance.

As well as if you get it out now. It could prevent things from becoming awkward later

[Summeroflove]

In fact I encourage you to just make a direct move on her. Maybe if you wanted to flirt a bit. Then just tell her how you like her and how you feel about her

[Tedoloration]

Even the fact that she rather like russian speaking guys or people from russian speaking countries? Its just a big stop sign that she threw at me and I can't get it out of my head, but im overthinking it..

[Tedoloration]

A want to move slow, i will invite her to an art museum which i spoke about it a few weeks ago. I will definitely make time for it.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah don’t rush too quick but you don’t want to wait too long to make a move on someone either. Because you could miss your opportunity

[Summeroflove]

Yeah definitely do that. But she probably won’t see it as a date unless you make it clear it is

[Tedoloration]

I will see what happens and I dont want to force it. But you do know that im not a russian speaking guy or from any baltic countries?

[Tedoloration]

Just want it make it clear for you

[Summeroflove]

No I understand and you do what you feel comfortable with. I get you don’t want to make things weird and everything

[Summeroflove]

I see what you mean. Maybe she is into you maybe she isn’t. But I wish you the best whatever happens

[whorable]

sounds like she’s trying to find a way around paying rent 💀 jk but just roommate.. espresso if she’s encouraging you to use dating apps.

[chilldude33]

Espresso ☕

[Guy13]

You should back off or you are going to creep her out. She's not looking for a live-in boyfriend. She'll get up and go one day is she does not feel safe around you.

[chilldude33]

If a girl is asking you any type of personal question, she is at least somewhat interested.

Be genuine. They're probing for compatibility.

[Tedoloration]

But doesn’t depend it on the context? I mean she is mu roommate, she may be curious and wants to know me better..

[chilldude33]

Yeah, but think about this: if you were a creepy weirdo of a roommate, would she be asking you personal questions?

[Tedoloration]

Well she wouldn't be my roommate in the first place..

[chilldude33]

How would she know beforehand

[Tedoloration]

Well true.. given the information about her type being russian or russian speaking so, I doubt that she is interested and asked just for conversation.

[chilldude33]

Are you not Russian speaking? Maybe I'm her type then 👀

[Tedoloration]

No, that wouldn’t be an issue, if I wouldn’t mention it. So giving you the information that im not russian speaking it is safe to say that she was just curious about me, nothing more?

[chilldude33]

My take is: curious = interested. You're just looking for ways to cockblock yourself.

[Tedoloration]

I hope so. She even asked about my star sign, ascendent sign and so on..

[chilldude33]

You got it in the bag, bro. Happy new year by the way. Give her a new year's kiss or something.

[Anonymous]

Just roommate