Unfair Love is so bad, love shouldn’t be competition?

[Anonymous]

I hate unfair and inequality love, people who belong together should be together but i hate it when some other guy tries to get in between unstable relationships where they don’t know what they are and too shy to say it. Don’t interfere with 2 people that belong together so pls to those who see a girl who clearly has something going on with a close guy, try not ruin their relationship and break them apart just because you think you’re a better fit for her

[Guy13]

Apparently, one of the two do not believe that “they belong together” or the “guy” butting in would not be doing it. He is getting a vibe or invite, otherwise, he would not waste his time.

[Asker]

In dramas, There’s always somehow that guy who meets her and gets in between her and her close guy friend”s relationship, when they are struggling to say what they feel and she ends up with him instead which I find unfair

[Guy13]

Well the boyfriend dropped the ball by not meeting the girls emotional needs and keeping that bonded style connection 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

I mean they’re not together yet, they are having trouble saying what they feel.

[Asker]

Also you sound really ignorant when it comes to love. And that emoji makes you look more ignorant

[Guy13]

Alright, you romanticist. .

[Asker]

Is that supposed to be an insult? What’s wrong with being a romanticist?

[kylee2437]

If you are meant to be then another person will never get in between two that are meant to be.

[Asker]

Yea and yet that always happens in Dramas so

[Asker]

In those There’s always some guy who meets her and gets in between her and her close guy friend”s relationship and she ends up with him instead which I find unfair

[CallmeTheKnight]

If she's already talking to or seeing another guy, I lose interest. If she presents herself as single, then it's all fair. Who gives a fuck about the last guy right?

You should never compete for love, but your description is all over the place. All I can say is if you're in that situation, then put your foot down or back away it's too much emotional trouble. Don't ever in your life say you're unsure or too shy to say, because that's just bullshit. Now if the other person is saying that, then it clearly tells you how they view you.

Move on and learn

[Asker]

In dramas, There’s always somehow that guy who meets her and gets in between her and her close guy friend”s relationship, when they are struggling to say what they feel and she ends up with him instead which I find unfair

[CallmeTheKnight]

Life is not a drama. Life is life and things happen for a reason. If you struggle to admit a simple feeling and express your intentions, it's fair for you to be left. Nobody has to wait on anyone to make up their mind if they've seeing them for a while. The man who pops in is always confident and certain of himself and what he wants. No woman wants a man who hesitates. You miss out on the shots you don't take and that's on you, nobody else.

[Asker]

God, that’s rude. Why is everyone so blunt online. And also why is everyone somehow magically logical online.

[CallmeTheKnight]

You'll never forget the truth. No matter how much you don't like it, but being uneasy about it doesn't get you any passes from it. you asked, we answered. What did you expect