Is the relationship best if you and him were friends first? what does it mean if your partner is your best friend girls?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Ok I have a story to share
I met a guy online we had to chat online and decided to met once he is back from business trip in our country were we both live. Days before we met we decided to meet each other but as friends not as romantic couple since yes we spoke online daily messages etc but being in person is different. Like how can I see him first time and jump for a kiss it’s stupid. You can’t really love or like someone by messaging only that insane.
So we stared as friends first for weeks. We went into made dates restaurants shows games karaoke etc etc
And then we realized we like each other.


In my option starting off as friends is ideal only if you are looking for a long term partner for a
Wife or husband !! You have to be Friends first in my opinion even for a month. Life isn’t all about sex

[kylee2437]

I don’t think it really makes a difference. I think it depends on the couple. Some people are friends first and then fall for each other, other times people have chemistry from the start. I do also think having your boyfriend as your best friend can be bad and good. It can be a sign that a girl has no other friends / X’d out her friends in the process of the relationship or it can mean that she has the best times with her boyfriend. I think there’s two sides to each statement

[Asker]

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[PinkRose24]

Ew hell no! I would not want my boyfriend to be my best friend. Only gay guys want to be bff's with women.