my boyfriend said not to fall in love with him because we might breakup because he will go to another country in the future. Is there any solution because he said he doesn't want to do ldr
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this extremely ridiculous. I see you don't want to Initiate the breakup yourself, but let me tell you any effort you will do to change his mind is worthless. don't fall in love with me? it's time you put yourself first, work on your personality, mentality, physique or anything that would make you feel better about yourself, do wonders with your self-love, and really treat him as just a fling or get him out of your life.10
There’s no point in getting too attached if he plans to move away. Some people don’t like LDR because they’re not worth it. If you aren’t able uk meet up at least once a month what the point?
Put this thing to bed and move forward.10
When a guy says I am not good enough to fall in love with or I am a bad apple then i am not sitting around asking why or what I should do. I am out as there is not a clear sign of heartbreak and angst than that comment.10
What Girls & Guys Said
It sounds like he just wants to have fun with you while he can and while he's still nearby. He doesn't want an emotional attachment and is trying to make it so its easier for both of you to let go. If that isn't something you want, then you should reevaluation your relationship10
I know you're in love with him. But you need a relationship where you can be happy long term. How's that possible here when he doesn't even want your love?10
Means he is just with you to be not alone, for your company and for the sex and the moment he moves away, he will let you go and move to the next10
Seems silly to be with him in the first place if that's his mindset10
Him telling you to not fall in love with him means he isn't the one for you. I suggest you end it now and go your separate ways.116
If I had such boyfriend i would have immediately ended it with him10
How about you follow him?
There is a solution if you can’t it’s not hai fault it’s yours.0
you know up front so it's your call if you want a broken heart or just move on10
If my girlfriend told me this I would kiss her cheeks n whispered my love i always have backup plan so don't worry about me. 😊0
If I am in your place, I will kick on his ass and tell him Go off10
I've been there before. The guy I grew up with. Told me that he can't date me and he can't marry me. I'm reaching out to him.0
Hit the gym post it on instagram lol0
so how come he is your boyfriend? oh, please.3
Yeah when guys say that they just want to have short term relations with you. If you were the one they would do anything to make it work. Run while you can and when a Man says stuff like this... believe him.
@katestar89 Exactly. Run if you can.
No. I can't do that. What if he catches me?