Was I too harsh on the guy I’m dating, he’s angry now?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy 2 and a half months. He has stood me up 5 times. In fact more than 5 times. And he never lets me know he just acts as if it didn’t happen. I called him the other day saying ‘I don’t like the way you say that you come but never turn up, I want to see u next week but I don’t wanna make a plan if if you’re just gonna not turn up and leave me waiting’ he’s now giving me the silent treatment but I don’t get it? Did I do something wrong here? I thought I was just setting a boundary and now he’s all annoyed at me? I don’t get it why he gets so annoyed when I set a boundary? He has kept me waiting for 10 hours before for so long and I wait and wait and he dosent even call?

[Noodle_fan]

if you think he is also highly confident but arrogant at same time , he sounds like narcissistic to me , they are usually have no empathy with any other people.

if you are lookin for something serious , he is obviously not the right person

[ShiftingMonke]

Like the other commenter said, he's taken advantage of your goodwill and you didn't do anything wrong by calling him out on it. If he's not interested in being reasonable, he's not worth your time and attention.

[Klove0202]

You didn't do anything wrong. if he stands you up every time you try to see him, he is the one at fault. I would ghost this guy and find someone better.

[OfMiceandMen]

He's treating you poorly and your letting him. Once could be an accident, twice he's treading on thin ice, 3 times, I wouldn't have given him the time of day. He would have sealed the deal at that point.

Women: Do not take crap from guys who treat you poorly, they are not worth it!

Just ditch him and find someone decent.

[spartan55]

So letting him stand you up five times is setting a boundary for you?
No wonder he doesn't take you seriously.

[MysteriousDarkness]

You called him out and he could not handle it. I think it's time you two go your separate ways.