My boyfriend asked for another girl?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2years and 3months, at the start of our relationship he told me he wasn't a virgin, neither was i, but now he is telling me he only said he was not a virgin because he didn't want me to think he was a weak. Now that i am one up than him... even though he is telling me that he is in love with me and wants a future with me, he now wants to experience it with another girl before he settles down forever with me. I am understanding even though it hurts that i somehoq agreed to it. But the shocker is he want this girl to be like his second girlfriend that knows about me and she will not be introduced to his family. He said i will know everything that happens between them. He said he just wants to free up his mind now and have fun before we settle down together. I am scared because i am in love with him and i trust him when he says he is in love with me. What if he falls in love for this girl and leaves me for her although he said he won't leave? What if it keeps happening even after we settle down together with house and kids? Can I please get some feedback?

[electromagnetic]

You’re allowing him to openly cheat on you? sounds rather foolish just because you were with another person before him and he wasn’t.
Let me give you some bad advice because sometimes, it works: Break it off and let him sort out his issues. There’s nothing worse then getting cheated on and knowing. Don’t keep him around if you can find happiness elsewhere. Date other people.
When he figures out what he wants, either you’ll be in the picture or you won’t. But it’ll be better than getting stringed along for more years to follow just because ‘he loves you’

[Flower7]

No, this is a bad idea. It only shows that he’s not sure about you and doesn’t know whether you’re the person he wants to stay with.

[HighValue]

You were with someone else BEFORE you two were in a relationship correct?

But he is with someone else while you two are already in a relationship which is bad/cheating.

He is in the wrong in my opinion.

If you accept that behavior now, don't expect it to ever change. He will either continue being with other people or leave you for that girl eventually.

[Anonymous]

Dump him and dodge a huge bullet before things get so much worse.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Give him an ultimatum, either me or her.

[Iron_Man]

That’s crazy that guys got mental problems

[In_Trance]

are you doing it or not?