My boyfriend said he would break up if I can not lose my weight, what should I do? (Page 2)

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I am 155.8 cm. and my weight is around 68 kg.  He said he would break up if I can not lose my weight cause he want to have a girlfriend who is beautiful inside and out side. I asked him what will happen if I got fat after married , he said we will break up with me. I told him that I can gain weight after being mom or when I get old so he said he will help me to lose my weight. If he insist on doing this I will consider about breaking up, cause I do not want to spend my life and being in relationship that make me feel insecure in love. What is your opinion about this?

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Instead of him breaking up with you do the right thing & break up with him first.

douride2 · Answer

I would leave now. He doesn't deserve to be with you.

Lynnfriend · Answer

That's not cool I quess he is shallow, break up with him first

MrKinktastic · Answer

You should call his bluff and dump him. If he doesn’t love you for you he’s not for you.

warsevf · Answer

I am loosing weight without having a partner, so that i can be fit and fun when i find one. Your boyfriend maybe concerned for your well-being and scaring you, or he is immature

jshm2 · Answer

Your boyfriend is a piece of controlling shit. Ditch his ass and do better.

Sabretooth · Answer

Get-the-fuck-out-right-fucking-now! I don't care about any happy memories... Remove them from your mind and heart as well as any love for him... He doesn't not love you. You're live is in very real danger;

Ninania · Answer

You should leave him. People like that are not worth your energy.

Shark_61695 · Answer

My thoughts? Thank you and goodbye. Or Oh that's a coincidence, I'm going to break up with you because you're shallow and insecure.

lottiebannotie · Answer

One 68 kg is not fat Two I would only lose weight for myself Three dump his lily-livered behind

EaterPeter · Answer

We all should manage our weight. Unless we have some medical condition which can keep us from doing so. I am struggling with somewhat similar challenge your boyfriend have.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Tell him to have a lot more sex with you! It'll burn off the fat!!

Anonymous · Answer

You OK with him controlling your body? I would not be.

iron_ninjs · Answer

If I were you, I'd lose the weight, and the thing I'd ask him to do is get the hell out of my life.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I lose weight to satisfy myself.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If you want to lose weight, do it for yourself but also do yourself the favor of ditching the guy.

Anonymous · Answer

I think he just doesn’t want you to change in weight because it’s also not healthy but I’m sure he would understand if you had baby fat and eventually start to lose it as long as his weight doesn’t change, fair is fair

Anonymous · Answer

He’s controlling and shallow. Find a new boyfriend.

the-mad-german · Answer

If he breaks up because of that he is not worth keeping anyways.

AdithyaR · Answer

Wait wait wait, he is gonna be bothered by weight you gain even due to pregnancy? Sis, drop him.

anantmann9057 · Answer

just reverse the situation and think would you be in a relationship with an obese person you will get your answer, and how fat destroys human body you can get the answer on google...

Anonymous · Answer

Someone needs to explain to him that women only lose weight to get a new man. Her current man isn't entitled to her best.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

So then lose the weight. Stop whining. Stop giving excuses. Just Do It. ®

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

I would do it for myself not because someone else wanted it

Zayed_ · Answer

He’s being honest with you and you should respect that

Luopio27 · Answer

At least he is honist. Better that thsn lying or leading you away from rhe truth.

Lunatic1 · Answer

If it is for your health, I don't mind that. But his reasoning is BS.

Starship78 · Answer

Break up with him telling youto lose the weight is 1 thing but threatening you that he will break up with you if you dont is no ok at all

Twalli · Answer

It's almost impossible to lose weight unless you actually want

grega239 · Answer

Why not lose weight? You weigh more than i do and im 181 at 63 kg

Pterodon · Answer

He got with you knowing your body and now it’s a problem? Run from this asshole

TrillXHippy · Answer

I can careless what my partner wants me to do

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Yes, you are to reduce your weight, every guy want his partner, attractive and physically fit

imcaptain · Answer

Not really becuase that is showing me he dosent live me for what I am but if he asks me to loose weight for my own good probably

TheAfrikan · Answer

The question is did he first love you before the weight was on.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Just date a white guy and you won’t have this problem

MONKSKIN1 · Answer

Find someone who wants you, film yoursekfs having lots of sexy and send it to the Cunt

whirled_up_girl · Answer

Break up with him first.

sparklefairy · Answer

Break up that's completely fucked

melanieeeB · Answer

Break up with him lol

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Lose the weight or move on. What else?

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Just checking to see if I'm out of jail yet

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Don't you mean ex boyfriend?

RavVid · Answer

Well at least you know what he wants.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Leave this douche

fonduegirl · Answer

Lose him, that asshole.

OddBeMe · Answer

Dump him and find a real guy.

Sam2021 · Answer

Never ever take it or leave it

Exterminatore · Answer

You should tell him: “byeeeeee.”

Babygirl_S · Answer

I would do it.. as thin as required.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No I wouldn't but I'd dump him he's an asshole

serious_miss419 · Answer

Get rid of him! He’s a loser. U deserve better

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Break up with him.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

If I was unhealthy sure

noohair · Answer

You picked an asshole for a boyfriend.

Alex8736 · Answer

your going to let him control your life?

ERB62 · Answer

Tell him to take a hike

AlexisDubaixx · Answer

Definitely break up

krin_m · Answer

Don't do it for him. Tell him to get lost!

Anonymous · Answer

68 kg is so f fat for a girl

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