My husband ruined the relationship between me & my inlaws, what to do?

[Anonymous]

When sometimes I said something bad of them, he went and said. Now they think I have them & they're confused. Is the relationship broken? Or have any hope of surviving. They are in general toxic as a family and do enjoy drama, including him. His sisters & mom can be dramatic and I was pulled into it too, or they tried to start with me

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1 y

* they think I hate them

[Mangospacho]

Wow. Great job, husband. I do not understand why he would think it was a good idea to go and blab things you said to your in laws. That kind of betrayal is just a notch lower than him having an affair. I would suggest talking directly to your in-laws, try to explain you don’t hate them. Depending on how toxic they are, they may let it go.

[Anonymous]

Your husband obviously doesn't understand the concept of privacy between husband and wife. Maybe you should tell his family something very personal and private about him to humiliate him, see how he likes it.

[nudetru]

I think. he just took. that off the table as not to. be a point of contention

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[nudetru]

he temporarily remove his parents from being able mess with his wife and him having to take sides on an all fronts war..

[nudetru]

stress alone yikes

[nudetru]

organize peace for you so you calm down so he can be calm.. don't do drastic emotional outbursts.. point no fingers. . take it easy no presure. find. a solution with a clear. head... draw your own conclusion

[Asker]

I don't understand your answer. Could you be a bit clearer