I have a feeling that a guy at work likes me but I think he is hesitant. I am quite taller than him as well. He showed some flirtation but backed down a little. Yesterday I looked at him and he stared at me back. He said a quickly hello and then left. Is he trying to be cautious? Should ignore him for a bit.
Is he being cautious? I have a feeling he likes me?
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Stop playing games and engage next time he says something or he will shut down. If you do not like him then don’t worry about it.
I did speak to him yesterday.
It could be.
Do you know if he is single or in a relationship?
He could be shy, or some men do not like women that are taller than they are, or he just might not be good at flirting.
Don't ignore him, just go up to him and ask him to join you for lunch.
That is pretty safe.
You and he have to eat.
Why not together?
He is single. He is a team manager (not mine) hence maybe the reason for being hesitant. I’m scared to ask him for lunch as he might others know or maybe complain about me..
Is there a policy about dating coworkers, or he may be hesitant because he had a bad experience with doing that once.
No there isn’t. Just no sexual harassment Which is the norm.
Just be patient, many guys like myself are pretty clueless when it comes to knowing that someone might be interested in them.
Maybe on the way out of work someday ask him if he would like to meet for coffee/lunch sometime this weekend if he isn't busy.
Then it wouldn't be done while at work.
It might be worth a shot.
After we briefly spoke the other day he told me he was off to a concert. The next day I messaged him and asked how the concert was. He didn’t reply to me. So does this mean he is not interested or just uncomfortable talking about it?
That part I would only be guessing.
He could be shy, uncomfortable or not interested.
Myself I like to call and talk to people, but then the other person has to actually answer for that to work.
Maybe talk to him face to face when you get a chance.
Maybe not in the work place but in the parking lot, somewhere a bit more private.
Just let him know that you are interested in getting to know him better, and was wondering if you would like to meet sometime.
Then hopefully you will get a direct answer, the one that you are hoping for.
Good luck.