She broke up with her ex 5 years ago. It's pretty obvious that she loves her current boyfriend, I saw how she looked at him, but she still continues to love her ex at the same time. How is this possible? Can you comment on psychological and emotional aspects?
Maybe her feeling is not exactly love, because in fact, she is getting nothing from that ex at the moment so it's hard to call it a "connection", that allows love. I think she is instead obsessing about him because maybe she didn't receive a proper closure or wasn't respected all along and she still didn't manage to get that respect back (not even withing herself) and clings to the idea of her ex to win it back. I very much think it's something closer to an obsession over an idea than actual love. She should focus more on the present and on what she is getting now, what bonds she has now, not what it "could have been" with her ex. They broke up for reasons and those reasons remain... Maybe a psychologist could help her putting on words all this instead of her notebook and give her feedbacks and a guidance to go through this feeling. At least the fact she writes sounds like she needs to express that, so getting an ear that gives her proper feedback is not a bad idea.
She's just hurt from the past. If she loved him she would go after him and vice versa! Yet they arnt with eachother!!!
She’s a divided woman and No divided woman is ever secure of fully trusting because she has to live with her own behaviors. High maintenance and drama woman interpersonally
u How does she live her ex sorry?
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She's not fully into current partner if she's into her ex. She hasn't moved on that's what I would say
She needs to break up, because she is not being fair to her current boyfriend.
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