Anyone else think it is disrespectful to ask someone about their ex when they know someone in the same room likes this person?

[anoymousunistudent]

So for context, I was at university the other day and my crush (well half crush as its kinda fading but nobody knows Its fading but me) was sitting in the same room as me pretty much behind me and people who are in mine and his class all know I like him as I have told them privately before in conversation went on to ask about his ex also someone who used to go to uni and asked how long they were together and laughed about the time they held hands like one of them, said “don’t you remember them holding hands?” As one of them asked if they were together? this conversation went on I believe for a few minutes. Anyone else think this is really inconsiderate towards me as they knew I was in the room and they know I like him? I find it quite thoughtless and disrespectful even if it wasn’t done purposely (which it probably wasn’t)

[Anonymous]

The world doesn't revolve around you. They were just asking about his ex, it's not their responsibility to consider your feelings before they ask him something that has nothing to do with you

[anoymousunistudent]

Never said it did, did I lmao?😂😂But they don’t even know him that well and out of everything they could have spoken about, plus you could tell he was quite uncomfortable. This relationship also was a year ago he had at uni and lasted about a month if that and it does to me show some disrespect even if it’s just a little. (I made yet again another mistake of posting on this site when people are just so blinded by the modern world)

[Opinion Owner]

Live and learn I guess