Deal with the loneliness of being single. Or, Deal with the stresses that come from being in a relationship?

[Danny_dan92]

Which one is worse in your opinion

Loneliness

Worrying about getting heart broken

A total of 17 votes were cast: 11 girls and 6 guys. See detailed results

[Guy13]

I have lived five years spans both ways. I may be needy but i am so glad I have met a woman who can work with me and that I like. Not a year yet but damn... so much better than being alone or no attachment relations...

[Anonymous]

You should not be in a state of worrying about a broken heart. That doomes the relationship from the get go. You have to trust and be trusted, love and be loved, do stuff fkr your partner and receive that in return (but because they do it, not because they have to because you do)

[Danny_dan92]

I’m saying it cause there are people that choose to be in a bad relationship rather than being single

[Opinion Owner]

That is not the answer. In my opinion you should be happy with yourself only before you can be happy with another person, they should be continuation of ourselves not our reason to live. Noone should make you feel good to be you, that is your job. So you should be happy to be single untill you find the love of your life. I was happily single for 23 years before I found someone that is worth to be my boyfriend and now I'm happy being with him

[Danny_dan92]

I agree

[JJ092003]

Dealing with stresses of a relationship is far worse. Learning to be happy alone is easier cos you don't have to think about how your actions affect someone else. Only how they affect you.

[Danny_dan92]

Agreed

[serious]

Dealing with the stress of being in love/relationships is the worst.

Living alone and dealing with that is far better.

[Hannajenky]

Seems like a very pessimistic way to view the world. I would choose to frame both options in a more positive way. You can enjoy working on yourself when single, and you can enjoy the company of your partner when your in a relationship

[LazerBean]

Neither of them have to be stressful. If it is, you're doing something wrong.

[Danny_dan92]

No. Being lonely is sad sometimes. Being in a relationship could be stressful

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

A relationship. I have an extra person to worry about.

[mstoxicprincess]

relationship stress is definitely more but it’s way more fun and thrilling to be with someone

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah I agree. Especially these days

[AimeeKyle]

Only worry about things you have control of. A relationship is a two way street. It will all come down to whether or not you desire companionship or not.

[LiamJHayden]

I don't let relationships become needlessly stressful. And I don't mind being alone, so for me "Neither."

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand this question. I’m not lonely when I’m alone and when I’m with someone, I feel lonely.

[Danny_dan92]

Well that’s unfortunate

[Anonymous]

Stupid polls options, but i can just sleep around and remain single. I always find ways to occupy my mind the rest of the time.