If a person has had 3 + girlfriends or boyfriends in relationships but all failed, does that person just have a bit of bad luck or are they the problem? (Page 2)
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It really depends on the circumstances. My girlfriend had more than three failed relationships. We get on very well.
i think that's actually pretty common. people date people... i mean, there's nothing weird about it.
Could be either. 3 partners seems to be quite normal.
Yes. I have been the problem, or at least the ending cause, in all of my relationships.
Impossible to tell but many people have had a lot more than three relationship feilures.
They have the bad luck. Either they're so good or so bad
the fact you asked this, doesn't say much for you. If they all know about each other i suppose its fine. This day in age it doesn't surprise me. Leave some for me. those who can do.
They are the problem.
So a little bit of bad luck isn't involved at all?
Bad luck 3+ times? Nah. That's just bad judgement, at the very least.
You've clearly never lived in Lansing.
Well big cities are notorious for having more promiscuous people in thus having more people have a long string of failed relationships.
Dating is about getting to know who is compatible with you. You date until you meet the one;therefore, your statement is based on a lack of maturity and experience.
Dating someone does not mean you are in a relationship with someone. Getting into a relationship with everyone you go on a date with is a result of lack of maturity and logic.
@LazerBean same difference you date until you meet the one. Relationships do form when it's assumed there is compatibility but some people don't find out how truly incompatible they are , grow apart, or it just doesn't work. That's life
And that exact mentality is why so many people are failures full of emotional damage in their romantic lives.
@LazerBean You're too immature and inexperienced.
Because I didn't make all the stupid and unnecessary mistakes that you do? Yeah ok.
@LazerBean don't project your insecurities and lack of experience on me lol. Not my fault you're naive and live under a rock. You sound like a Virgin girl chill lol
Im projecting? Lol how ironic of you to say. Pretty typical of women who let their genitals do all their thinking for them to think that "virgin" is a slur.
@LazerBean you sound offended 🤣 . I guess the truth hurts
Lol keep gaslighting. The truth does hurt, and that's why you were so offended bye saying that you're the problem that you felt the need to comment.
@LazerBean "bye saying that? 😆 somebody's so mad they can't type. I
Wow sad deflection, so mad you can't even use logic to argue. How many relationships have you been in and still can't find a decent man who wants you permanently?
Wrong, Lazerbean. They're not mad because the connection proved too shallow. They're mad, because the individual they wanted to give a chance commits a disgusting and over the top act of betrayal. Abuses trust. I'm not just talking cheating. I'm talking robs the partner, pulls a 180 out of nowhere, slanders them, rapes out of nowhere, starts emotionally abusing or trying to the extreme to control the partner out of nowhere with extreme and childish demands, gaslights regularly, or abandons out of nowhere and then lies to the police to get the partner in jail for no reason.
Psychotic behavior so senseless and dramatic, it has you doubting that you can ever trust anyone ever again. Maybe he decides to lace his wife's protein shake with arsenic. Maybe she gets his hopes up about a family, then has an abortion out of the blue for the sake of pure narcissism, and spouts insane bullshit to sound justified by demonic fool standards, leaving him wondering how he can trust her with anything after that.
And crazies are EVERYWHERE today!
My list doesn't even include those who, after the relationship ends, decide they're gonna be demons, and that they can't walk away. They have to punish you for leaving for your own good, even if you did so politely. Tire slashers. Brake line cutters. Car bombers. Others who stage murders like something out of an episode of Monk, or as elaborate as an Agatha Christie novel.
Or maybe, your next loved one had a serious illness. But since you weren't married, the healthcare system wouldn't let you visit her in the hospital when the entire world went on lockdown, because the world is run by psychopaths. And then she's Terri Schiavo'd to death, and you're powerless to stop it. Or maybe she vanishes for months without much explanation, because you underestimated how dangerous it is to date a Chinese national.
Welcome to life.
@LazerBean bye and by are two different words lol🤣. Girl , what an airhead.
@LazerBean girl your boyfriend cheats on you😆🤣
@Softlife808 I see you're too ashamed to answer the question so you have to keep deflecting 😂 girl a space doesn't belong before a comma, airhead. Keep spreading those legs for everyone 😉
@LazerBean don't project your life issues onto me. I can't relate to your issues. If that's the question you come up with then more than likely it has to do with your life not mine
@ObscuredBeyond wow can't relate. Sounds like problems that can be 99% avoided by having good judgement.
@Softlife808 you're right, you can't relate toy life problems because I have none. Meanwhile you are the problem. Otherwise you wouldn't still be a hoe at 30.
@LazerBean correct I can't relate to your issues. I'm too responsible. Hoeing, I can't relate to your mom hun. Must be something you've seen in your home growing up
@obscuredbeyond ignore her. Her boyfriend watched gay porn. He's not even into her lol
Lol you're projecting so hard. If you were responsible then you wouldn't be mad at the idea that your singleness is your own fault. What's your body count? Exactly. That why decent men like my husband avoid you like the plague.
@LazerBean how's your boyfriend gay porn collection coming along? Is his desire for a man still affecting your relationship? Lol
You're seething so hard you can only make stuff up now. Why don't you want to answer howany relationships you've been in?
@LazerBean how's your boyfriend gay porn collection?🤣
As people with values, we don't watch porn because it's for degenerates like you. Do you have logic for thinking he watches porn? (Of course you won't answer because you're just a seething roastie)
@LazerBean cute you're trying to work through your boyfriend lack of desire for you 🤣
You can't always tell. Not at first. But when the crazy weeds pop up, you can run away before they grow tall enough to strangle you. Which is what I usually do. At the same time, I can't fault the girl that died from Huntington's for something neither of us could control. But I can fault the healthcare system that didn't value her life.
Every time a new gal starts with the psycho games, the leash gets shorter.
@obscuredbeyond stop embarrassing yourself by explaining yourself to a complete stranger for approval. I'm embarrassed for you.
@ObscuredBeyond someone dying isn't on the same level as picking losers.
@Softlife808 keep avoiding the question, roastie, just as predicted.
@LazerBean about your boyfriends gay porn addiction?
About what sort of logic makes you think my husband has one, and how many relationships you've had. Both of which we all no you will not answer because it would make you look like a retarded whore.
@LazerBean the logic of wanting a man who engages in gay porn? I can't relate that's your boyfriends issue. I've never had that experience
Thank you for doing exactly what I predicted in proving my point. Typical trailer park trash
@LazerBean sorry hun can't help you with you and your boyfriends gay porn addiction. I don't have those issues.
Still can't back up your claims lol maybe if your dad was around when you were growing up you would have learen logic instead of learning how to be the community free prostitute.
The point is, you don't always know what to expect from day 1. Life is full of nasty surprises. It's about how you address them when you come.
If everyone knew what to expect from day 1, a lot of true crime docudramas wouldn't exist, and certainly not the ones that revolve around spousal murders.
@Softlife808 : Teaching runs in my family. If I can make her just a modicum smarter upon walking away, or just a hair less ignorant, then I've accomplished something. It may be miniscule, but it's better than letting her gray matter go to waste. That's how you get Florida women who destroy entire gas stations because they're too uneducated to comprehend what a yellow bag over a pump means.
@ObscureBeyond and my point is that the vast majority of problems in a relationship that are because of people could have been prevented by just having good judgement. And please enlighten me on what percentage of marriages end in murder, since apparently it must be a significant number for you to apply them to your logic so generally.
@ObscuredBeyond the whole attitude that one has little hand in how their lives turn out is why there are so many mediocre people whose lives are filled with constant failure.
@obscuredbeyond she's miserable her boyfriend likes gay porn
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Why would it be a problem to have 3+ girlfriends?
Show to struggle and indicate to keep a relationship going. 😕
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy I guess that's a way to look at it of you have a vagina but for real men, it shows thar you can continue to attract multiple women
Any ugly sucka can attract a woman. Quality is what matters man.
It's what I desire, not just anyone to be with.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy My friend sounds like you are a woman passing as a man. Quantity is what matters for men. Name the man that is famous for the wife he has, and I'll name 5 men famous for attracting multiple women. Women look for 1 quality man, men look to attract as many women as possible. It's incredible that anyone would ever try to debate this given the mountains of evidence validating it.
I would have agreed in the past with what you are saying but now I speak from a Christian perspective.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy I'm not sure why that matters. Christian men are judged by how many women they attract the same way a man from any other religion is. You're making the mistake most women do of associating your personal preference to reality. I'm saying in general men a man's ability to attract multiple women is what has value not his ability to attract one woman, no man is ever going to be valued for that, and if he is please share any man in the history of the world that has been.
This isn't a good question, you can't make a statement about men who have 3 girlfriends that can apply to women with 3 boyfriends. Men and women are inherantly and eternally different.
They need to take off their blindfold, it’s not that hard.