As a husband how will you take it if your wife hides you something really serious?

[Cutielili]

It is not confirmed yet, but I got a possibility to have a serious illness. I am not sure about telling it to my husband. But if I have it my time is not confirmed for me to be there. However, we are not living together many days only half a week and we do have some difficult marriage since we married. How would you feel as a husband if you learn in late? Should I tell him about it or hide it? I don't know his real feelings as he does not appear to care much about me. Everyday he remembers me to be the worst thing that happened to him but he still want to stay married. I don't want to hurt him and I am not understanding if he really loves me

[Lliam]

Wow. I hope you get good news, Cutielili, and that it isn't something really bad. My prayers are with you. ❤️

Given what you said about your marriage, I don't know what to tell you.
My initial instinct would be to tell him right away. You never know. He might be really concerned and supportive.

If my wife or I ever got concerning news, we would tell each other immediately and be there for each other every step of the way.

[Pyrofox]

My excessive wonderlust in looking and studying things would probably lead me to figuring out whatever my wife hides. As to how mad I'd get over it that depends on what level it affects me.

Finding out I'm suddenly a step father without knowing yeah I'm divorcing if I didn't consent to the kid.

Finding out my partner has an illness sheesh I'd be like so what can't we do? So long as its not like total hermit lifestyle we good.

[OlderAndWiser]

How would you feel if he had a terminal illness and didn't tell you?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think this is a typical marriage anyway if you’re living this far apart. Normally, you would tell your spouse about these kinds of things but you both don’t sound like you have a relationship where you even talk at all. I doubt either of you would even show up for the burial itself if one of you passed away anyway. In this case you don’t have to tell him, he’s made very little effort to reconcile the marriage and he may just retreat even more if you tell him you’re seriously ill. I’d say focus on yourself and your health. The marriage is on thin ice anyway and telling him about this will put more stress on you anyway.

[abc3643]

You need to tell him.
Trust me on this; it's the right thing to do for a few reasons including some that might surprise you.

[worldscolide]

I would be incredibly upset if my wife hid something like cancer from me. Not only because of the dishonesty, it's because we are supposed to be a team.

[mark000h]

Don't hide things from your husband, otherwise you show you don't trust or respect him.

[David4358]

there is a reason your vows are in sickness and in health.. he is supposed to be there for you.. tell him

[Anonymous]

In sickness and in health... you gotta tell him

[helbigarthur]

I have one it's a personal thing no one knows but me not family not the girl I was seeing for a year. It's there right to tell you or not.

[KrakenAttackin]

Why be. married if you can't tell your husband something like this.

[MrShaun]

I just wanted to wish you my best. I hope, whatever it is, you get through it.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Tell him so he'll be nicer to you

[Luckycharms12]

Should tell him of course let him be there for you

[In_Trance]

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