Our mutual friend introduced us and we hit it off and took a liking to one another. She is of a different religion to me so it never really went anywhere. She got a boyfriend and he then told her to stop speaking to me. We didn't speak for a couple of months and when she broke up with him, got back in touch with me. I met her a few times and we went out drinking, we kissed a few times. She said we would be better as friends but if the same religion, she would be with me. Next time we met, we spent the night together and nothing happened. She seemed on edge so I didn't bother making a move or anything. Shortly after, she began having psychotic episodes. Not realising what was happening around her and doing very weird things. She took distance from me, so I gave her space.
Now she is getting better it seems and explains to me what she was going through. We don't really talk anymore. Without fail, once a month she will pop up saying 'hey, how have you been? Hope you've been good' but that's about it. Nothing after that, then the next month it's the same.
I'm trying to work out if she can't let me go for whatever reason or she's just bored when I pop up into her head. Thoughts?
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I'm not sure if it's the same situation, but I pop up every once in a while and text the guy I love. That's when I can't hold myself back anymore. And no, we can't be together because he's in a relationship. Maybe she has feelings for you but your obstacle is the religion.
seems like you are an option for attention until something better comes
Lonely maybe. Maybe she's reaching out to many of her old contacts, maybe it's personal to you. Do you want to be her friend? You could say hi back.