If your partner had to go abroad for work or study for a long time. Could you leave everything behind and go with him/her?

[snowy]

I mean this is a specific question for my boyfriend going to Canada for a Master's Degree. But I want to learn your general opinions. Could you leave everything behind for your partner and just go with him/her?

[OfMiceandMen]

I can see your boyfriend getting a visa because he is going to school, however, I am unsure whether you can simply come with him. If you were married, that's one thing, however, customs and immigration may not allow girlfriend's to simply cross the border for any lengthy stays.

Unless, you already have a visa to enter the country. You would need a work visa to be able to gain employment.

In regards to you question, I am well established where I am, so I would be reluctant to leave.

[Googlemyahoo]

Before coming to Canada you have to pass this

You also have to take polar bear kung fu defence. All Canadians learn this at 5 years old.

Lastly, while near bodies of water you must be absolutely wary of the volatile poisonous cobra chickens.

If you’re anywhere Toronto or surrounding areas you should learn East Indian languages because thats all who live there

[annabananna]

Where is the first pic?

[Googlemyahoo]

@annabananna its between the usa and Canada border !

[menina]

It depends on what you value the most. Your life as it is now or your relationship. You need to ask yourself what's more important for you now. Also think about the pros and cons of moving. You might need to have a conversation about the topic with your family and probably with your friends too.

Personally, I would have no problems in joining him. I have no reasons to stay in the country where I live, so I would gladly leave with my boyfriend (if I had one).

[Dinklex3]

No, lol. I don’t see why I would have to.

If I really loved him we could do long distance and I’d visit him often. Once I’m done with school I might move afterwards, but I see no reason to stop my education/career just to follow them while they accomplish theirs.

[Pinay_ako]

If you’re able to start a new life in Canada while there, why not? The possibilities are endless

[sage2021]

Sure you should go with him. If you don't want to worry if he's found someone else or sees other girls. If you weren't there keeping him occupied and happy sexually, that's a chance you'll be taking.
You can find another job eventually.
Just go and be his other half and have good times together 😊

[dynamicyandere]

Fortunately, I operate my business remotely, so that allows me to have geographical freedom to travel.


I flew 7,000+ miles to be close to my significant other.


But we’re each other’s ride-or-die, so we’re highly committed to each other.


For newer relationships where commitment hasn’t been solidified and strengthened yet, I’d hold off on it.


But for highly-committed relationships, 100% yes.

[sheikalana]

It really depends. First of all if he made that decision without thinking of the consequences this would have in our relationship and without telling me in advance then I would be very upset cuz I don't have the type of job that can be done everywhere I decide to relocate to.

[Anonymous]

no and i certainly wouldn't need to... you really want me to pick up, get a new job, sell the house, buy a new house or rent some money waster, all for that? no... for his job he could just get a new one that doesn't require that then... for study? that's even more of a ridiculous reason.

as for you, he's just a boyfriend... don't uproot your whole entire life for someone who is only a boyfriend, regardless of how many years you've been together.

[Raaj4you]

Yes, why not? You can plan your future together. Both can study or your boyfriend studies and you can go for work. This is the best way to create a family. This is your life you have to plan it and execute it by yourself nobody will teach you.

[Potteplante]

No, was in a LDR for a little over 2 years - spread over 2 periods. Had the move been permanent - I would maybe have considered it. Already migrated once.

[BadApple69]

Hate to be that guy but…. Long distance romances don’t work. If he leaves and you don’t go with him than some other girl will be sharing his bed. So if he means the world to you, go with him.

[Adam1978]

I have a job, if I leave I don't. So I would have to find a job in the new place or be a burden. So it's really about the current life situation and how likely the new can be better.

[AdithyaR]

Depends on where I am in life. I aim to be a tenured professor at University so if I'm at that point in life, I wouldn't be able to move.
If not, I'd genuinely consider the option and see if it's viable.

[Finchie40]

If you will be financially stable and you love your partner then you are best to go with them , What are you leaving behind?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I did something like this. Never again.

You have this one life, live for yourself.

[libsaretards]

Depends on how far we are in the relationship. If I am close to proposing (as in I have already bought the ring) then yes. Any sooner than that, no

[DizzyDesii]

If he was studying abroad in Australia or Canada, I’d go. Any other country, its a no go. We’d breakup. I really ain't EVER tryna leave the USA

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I can do that. I can live anywhere.

[LiamJHayden]

I could, but would not do so. It would disrupt my long term plans too much. I want to be able to basically retire at 35, 40 at the oldest. Going overseas would jeopardize that.

[belle_kai]

It really depends on several things. Also my career. It really depends on several things

[Anonymous]

We are married. What I did notice is how when your partner goes away for a bit of time is how the wolves start circling.

[Kidblink1]

No, I have to stay in school, finish my degree and work to support myself. Long distance relationships are difficult, but if it's meant to be things will work.

[KrakenAttackin]

The fact your profile pic is a thirst trap tells me you are not very respectful of your relationship in the first place.

[Kelly6]

I would go with him too, if financially okay

[RobEdelman]

Yeah, I work remotely anyways so I would make it work if we loved each other enough

[Gramkabir]

Why would anybody should leave his/her career and go after the boyfriend/girlfriend? If the couple is married then there is separate issue...

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't go especially if my life is already setup in the city where I'm living. I live in a great city 👌

[shades777]

if he pretty cool if she came with me but im not following a woman anywhere.

[Britney04]

If their communication sure. Now if it get shady stop to me we’re done.

[Smashingdoozy]

Yeah I'd be super excited to do that

[FreyaRed]

No. I have my own long term goals.

[slatyb]

I could just work remotely. No problem

[exitseven]

I would do it in a heartbeat.

[Christoff92]

Leave the country start fresh. Sure why not 😊

[Twalli]

I couldn't if it meant losing my job

[Cheerfull009]

No, I will not go with but be in contact

[Agape93]

Nope but I'll visit

[Anonymous]

If you are young why not?

[Sabretooth]

Easily.