3 year LDR, recently broke up, recoverable?

[JustinCase12]

3 yr LDR, I sent a nude to a random girl, told on myself and apologized asap. Random told girlfriend 2 days later and fabricated more lies about what was said, gaslighting girlfriend even more. We broke up and in no contact for a month, is it recoverable?

We were on a high note, and had just took a trip together. I loved her. Never physically touched anyone, but understood the emotional damage and embarrassment caused. Instantly regretted my intoxicated decision, took accountability for my actions, apologized with handwritten letter a week later, haven’t heard from her since. We had a future planned together is there any hope? Should I keep fighting for her, and if so how?

Yes, you have a chance if it was true love

No, focus on yourself and give up

[Anonymous]

No man, I understand that you are feeling regret and sadness over the end of your relationship, but it's important to respect your ex-girlfriend's decision and give her the space she needs to process her feelings.

It's difficult to say whether or not your relationship is recoverable without knowing more about your ex-girlfriend's thoughts and feelings. However, it's important to continue to take responsibility for your actions and show genuine remorse and willingness to make amends.

Consider reaching out to your ex-girlfriend again, but be sure to approach the conversation in a respectful and non-confrontational manner. Avoid making excuses or placing blame, and focus on expressing your sincere regret and willingness to make things right.

It's possible that your ex-girlfriend may need more time and space before she is ready to consider reconciling. Respect her wishes and give her the time and space she needs to process her feelings.

Remember that the most important thing is to prioritize your own personal growth and healing, regardless of the outcome of the relationship. Consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor to work through your feelings and develop a plan for moving forward.

[Shamalien]

I think there is hope and you should spare no expense in getting her back. What you did is bad but not unforgivable, especially considering you fessed up right away. No contact is not the play in my opinion. You gotta fight for this cause it’s your fault

[PrettyPriya]

From where I sit, I don't think it is recoverable from the details that you give. There is one thing that sticks out, and that is that you sent a letter and have heard nothing back in a week. I am not saying it is not possible to salvage this, but I think you need to lay out a plan to better yourself.

It seems that alcohol is what made the decision. Perhaps work on that and not get intoxicated to the point you make these decisions. Seek out help to be able to show her you want to make a change for the better.

What happened here is what is called emotional cheating. You didn't physically engage in something with another girl but mentally you did. Yeah, bad mistake. If it has only been a short time, the only thing you can do now is wait.

She might just need time to process this and decide what is best for her. Nothing you can do or say is likely to change that. So, you have to just hope that she gives a second chance.

[Fireguy17]

The damage has been done, time to move on.
To this day I have no clue why guys think that sending unrequested nude pictures to women is a good idea.

[strateguy632]

if you are phoning and no answer, she is too angry, rime to let go and move on.

[Iron_Man]

You made a big mistake, but you can try to talk to her but don’t lie and don’t ever do that again

[In_Trance]

Move on