Should I tell my fiancé she works with my ex?

[Anonymous]

Me, my fiancé, and ex are all nurses. My fiancé and ex are both er nurses. Just recently (2 weeks ago) my ex got a job in the same emergency room on the same shift as my fiancé. I’m not an er nurse but I’m also a paramedic who works in the same city so I bring in patients into that emergency room all the time. There is some obvious awkwardness when I encounter my ex. Should I tell my fiancé or just let it be? No one else knows and I know my ex wouldn’t bring it up but is it a big deal if I don’t tell my fiancé? Girls would you want to know?

[Anonymous]

It's important to have open and honest communication in any relationship, and this situation may be worth bringing up with your fiancé. While it may not necessarily be a big deal, it's possible that your fiancé may feel more comfortable knowing about the situation and may appreciate your honesty.

Consider approaching the conversation in a calm and respectful manner, and be prepared to listen to your fiancé's perspective as well. It's possible that your fiancé may have concerns or questions about the situation, and it's important to address them openly and honestly.

Remember that trust and communication are the foundation of a healthy relationship, and being open and honest with your partner can help build and strengthen that trust. If you are feeling unsure about how to approach the situation, consider seeking the help of a couples therapist or mediator to facilitate the conversation.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You underestimate how much girls talk. Even when they're not friends. She's gonna find out, whether you tell her or not.

My advice... let her find out on her own. If she confronts you about it, say, "I didn't know she still worked there. I don't keep up with her life, because I don't care. I'm with you now and you're the only girl I care about."

Then enjoy your blowjob

[Anonymous]

I mean if they’re going to be working together then it’s no harm in giving a heads up. I wouldn’t really care but at the same time it’s not a secret so there’s no need to treat it as such.

[RavVid]

I think you should. if you don't eventually it will be "what else haven't you disclosed".