I feel like we aren’t right for each other but I am scared to raise the baby alone?

[Anonymous]

I’m with this guy and I feel like we aren’t right for each other. I just don’t know if we’re compatible. I feel like he secretly resents me for going through with the decision to keep this baby and I feel like he hates me because of it. He can just be horrivle but I’m so scared to be alone and a single mom how do I beat through this? I just wish and wished it was with a man who I was in love with but it’s just not. I know half the people in the world don’t work out with their baby dad and they don’t even end up lasting with the person they had kids with but it’s just scary. Normally I’d be able to just leave the situation but me having a baby with him makes it harder because I feel like I have to stick with him for the baby and I feel like I’d be sad without him. I feel like I’m constantly trying to make it work with him because I’m so scared of raising the child alone.

[Anonymous]

You will be fine. I'm raising my not even 2 month old completely alone with no help at all. Her dad abandoned us both and he wants nothing to do with our daughter. You can stay with someone just for the sake of your baby if you are unhappy. I grew up with parents who stayed married and it had a negative impact on all of us growing up. We wished they had divorced

[Opinion Owner]

I just want to also say. It's not as scary as you think raising a baby as a single mum. In a way it's peaceful because you don't have to deal with the bs drama that you would staying with the person who makes you unhappy

[_Just_A_girl_]

dont raise it alone
baby needs y'all together until 18

[Anonymous]

Why do so many of today's women breed with men who don't want children and won't stick around to be good fathers?

[SoJust]

maybe wait until you're sure about these feelings, you shouldn't stay married for the baby