Well, making him stop is not healthy for the two of you, it would create a bigger problem.. If he is insisting nothing is going on, then it’s up to you to believe him or not - it’s understandable that this is a trigger for you, I completely understand. If the whole thing makes you simply not comfortable then you can put some boundaries in, instead of forcing him to stop. Boundaries are important and if people don’t want to be amicable then that’s their problem and you are obviously more than free to move on. If ur uncomfortable then you’re uncomfortable
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some would think that's "sketchy"
like it's just leaving room
for opportunity
and second chances
and no jealous person likes that
Not at all that’s a terrible thing to do and could potentially mess up your relationship
Sure, if you left on good terms.
Unless you have kids, no. It’s not normal.
As for your question, it’s totally circumstantial
Would you be ok with your boyfriend doing this? And should I ask him to stop?
Well, making him stop is not healthy for the two of you, it would create a bigger problem..
If he is insisting nothing is going on, then it’s up to you to believe him or not - it’s understandable that this is a trigger for you, I completely understand.
If the whole thing makes you simply not comfortable then you can put some boundaries in, instead of forcing him to stop. Boundaries are important and if people don’t want to be amicable then that’s their problem and you are obviously more than free to move on. If ur uncomfortable then you’re uncomfortable
I see what you mean. What boundaries could I use instead of asking him to just stop?
He was stupid for telling you all of this.
Do you think it's something I should be worried about? Or it's nothing?
A man should never tell any woman shit like this. He is an idiot, which should be your greater concern.
Why should that be my greater concern?
Because he hasn't learned to keep his mouth shut.
not strate away but 3 - 6 mouths latter is good
All men are animal
I refuse to
No it isn't
Should I ask him to stop?
Just stop responding
depends