Have you ever been someone’s side piece without realizing it?

[Finchie40]

After my divorce and entering back into the dating world , a majority of girl’s I have hit it off with or hooked up with and ended up having sex with were already in a relationship with someone or married to someone else and keeping it secret? This has occurred so many times , to the point I question myself if this is this normal nowadays? Do people not really value relationships and marriages anymore? These experiences have made it harder for me to even consider marriage again and harder for me to truly trust someone, How do you know for sure that the person you are in a relationship with isn’t doing this shit to you behind your back? I got to a point in life that I don’t really care what someone’s relationship stays is anymore , If you are that unhappy in your relationship that is no longer my problem , I just want a girl that wants to rock my world and enjoys sex as much as I do.

[shades777]

Yea this chick i met at the grocery store we flirted got her number and we went to the museum went for a walk then came back to my place, we fucked, then she started coming over pretty regularly after doing stuff like getting her nails done, even gave me my first rimjob, she starts getting feels and asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend, I said nah Im cool on how we got it now, so tell me why one day after sex she said she got a boyfriend, after all that sexing and took her on one date, I mean it bothered me cuz I was thinking she was single this whole time

[Finchie40]

Same shit happened to me pretty much with a girl that told me she wanted to be with me we were dating and screwing for a good few months until her husband showed up on my doorstep , I was like WTF, Comes to find out her husband traveled a lot for work so she was able to play me for as long as she did

[Billlewis]

I've been used financially, for various tasks and chores as well as emotionally, but usually not for actual sex.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, it turned out he had been lying to me and was actually married. As soon as I found out, I ended it. I never saw him again after that.

[DizzyDesii]

Yep and its part of why I’m 2 days sober of being boy crazy

[AliSulayman]

Try being the “main piece” and be taken for granted. It’s much worse believe me!

[Finchie40]

I been there before as well

[LiamJHayden]

Probably at some point, but as I still do not know I cannot say for certain.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I have. This is very common with Internet dating. People love to lie and hide there. There's plenty of room to do it!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Only your mom's

[Kelly6]

Lot of time

[In_Trance]

No I haven't