never heard of it working out, i've always seen people so hurt no matter what. it also never lasts forever. how can it? it's not a good foundation to build on.
Yeah a couple of my friends were bonking then literally around the same time found someone they wanted to date. So they ended it and we're all still friends
I have many friends with benefits AND I GO OUT WITH THEM 4-5 times a week. We go out for dinner or clubbing then back to my house for a night of fucking
I was in a friends with benefits relationship for 5 years and it caused more damage than good memories. I do not encourage friends with benefits relationships to anyone.
Yes. Had one or two and I know of friends who've made it work as well. Ofcourse they always end as someone is moving on and doesn't feel good to be left behind but that's part of being in such a situation.
I've made it work, I have a couple of long-standing FWBs at the moment and we are on the same page of what we want from things. We communicate well enough that if anything changes we will talk about it.
Most of the time it ends up with one person wanting more then sex, then if you get a boyfriend or girlfriend they won't be cool with you keeping in touch with your former fuck buddy.
What's a successful one? Pretty sure they all end the same way. It's a natural thing to develop feeling for someone your being intimate with. Guess it partly depends on your mentality.
i had one with a girl 40 years ago for ten years and we both enjoyed it we stoped as we got wed all most on the same day and I have missed her every day sence..
I don't know you so lofting a dig at you on purpose would be impossible. Butnyes, mpersonal experience. Every friends with benefits relationship I've had with a jonpoly girl ended in her being very upset that I didn't want a real relationship. Poly girls don't usually expect that because that's what poly means. Unfortunately, poly girls are outnumbered by poly guys like 1000 to 1 so..
Of course everyone is a little different. That's why I said "usually." But expecting something long term is nevertheless adjacent to the same sort of commitment that is monogamy. I'm saying when a poly girl has multiple long term commitments she tends to get less hurt at the loss of one, which makes having the long term commitment in the first place seem a little perfunctory.
our generation don't wanna be in a relationship, they just wanna fuck each other till they have had enough. they don't wanna communicate. they want the 'chase'. everything is complicated
@ritz_ our generation is lonely and doesn't know how to bond properly, they think they always have another option due to social media dating apps. but they don't
you're 22, you don't know what happiness is. you will burn through the prettiest years of your life and all your male friends and you'll be lonely and forgotten at 30
I have done this successfully a few times. Usually, it has ended with her getting into a real relationship and we just move on but continue to be friends
Yes I have this with a few I just show up an they go getting all silly like their very happy to do what ever it takes for them to make me cum so I'll give them more. God Bless
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never heard of it working out, i've always seen people so hurt no matter what. it also never lasts forever. how can it? it's not a good foundation to build on.
Yeah a couple of my friends were bonking then literally around the same time found someone they wanted to date. So they ended it and we're all still friends
I have many friends with benefits AND I GO OUT WITH THEM 4-5 times a week. We go out for dinner or clubbing then back to my house for a night of fucking
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what's your secret, Jerre. Aside from hyperspermia, we all know that's a big pull :D
@zeitgeist057 an 8” cock and lots of cum
how deep lol literally
but really there must be more to it that that. my dad has a giant schlong and no skill whatsoever with women.
yes, a couple of times... among friends, and acquaintances of mine
more of a friends with benefits, though...
I love movie. The scene where she is showing him how to cross the street lol. That's exactly how new yorkers do it.
I was in a friends with benefits relationship for 5 years and it caused more damage than good memories. I do not encourage friends with benefits relationships to anyone.
I can't imagine it being successful, if you don't achieve the natural ends of said act.
Relationships must serve a propose
Yes. Had one or two and I know of friends who've made it work as well. Ofcourse they always end as someone is moving on and doesn't feel good to be left behind but that's part of being in such a situation.
I've made it work, I have a couple of long-standing FWBs at the moment and we are on the same page of what we want from things. We communicate well enough that if anything changes we will talk about it.
Most of the time it ends up with one person wanting more then sex, then if you get a boyfriend or girlfriend they won't be cool with you keeping in touch with your former fuck buddy.
My friend from college had one. It lasted for 4-5 months. It ended because the girl moved to another. County. They still keep in touch.
It’s very rare for it to work out long-term I think. Possible but rare.
Why do you ask?
Never heard of it and never would do it either. But I'm sure it has happened at some point.
What's a successful one? Pretty sure they all end the same way. It's a natural thing to develop feeling for someone your being intimate with. Guess it partly depends on your mentality.
i had one with a girl 40 years ago for ten years and we both enjoyed it we stoped as we got wed all most on the same day and I have missed her every day sence..
I've been in one before. We are both still friends.
Only when the gurl is poly.
Personal experience or was that a dig at me?
I don't know you so lofting a dig at you on purpose would be impossible. Butnyes, mpersonal experience. Every friends with benefits relationship I've had with a jonpoly girl ended in her being very upset that I didn't want a real relationship. Poly girls don't usually expect that because that's what poly means. Unfortunately, poly girls are outnumbered by poly guys like 1000 to 1 so..
A lot of people on this app know that my ideal relationship would be poly. So yes, a dig.
Poly boundaries are different for everyone. Please don't assume things.
Of course everyone is a little different. That's why I said "usually." But expecting something long term is nevertheless adjacent to the same sort of commitment that is monogamy. I'm saying when a poly girl has multiple long term commitments she tends to get less hurt at the loss of one, which makes having the long term commitment in the first place seem a little perfunctory.
Depends on the individual. So no.
how would it be "successful" that it doesn't end with a relationship? also what's a situationship?
... also no
Close friends having sex ✌️
our generation don't wanna be in a relationship, they just wanna fuck each other till they have had enough. they don't wanna communicate. they want the 'chase'. everything is complicated
Well, maybe don't assume things?
Some people do not experience romantic attraction, including me. They are still capable of emotional bonds and sex.
@ritz_ our generation is lonely and doesn't know how to bond properly, they think they always have another option due to social media dating apps. but they don't
Yeah, the old conservative talk. Gimme a break!
you're 22, you don't know what happiness is. you will burn through the prettiest years of your life and all your male friends and you'll be lonely and forgotten at 30
Again, don't assume things.
1. I'm a virgin. Haven't slept with my boyfriend, let alone my male friends.
I have done this successfully a few times. Usually, it has ended with her getting into a real relationship and we just move on but continue to be friends
Yes I have this with a few I just show up an they go getting all silly like their very happy to do what ever it takes for them to make me cum so I'll give them more.
God Bless