You randomly ask and get permission for 5 minutes alone to go through your parters phone, what do you do and why?

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magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

going by what you updated us with here. thats a bit tricky considering, unless this is a very new relationship, this is the kind of info that should already be known between partners. then again, if this relationship is so new that you have to stoop to these kinds of tactics, then you should probably not be getting this intimate yet anyways. now if this is an otherwise well established relationship and he has not shared this type of info (or you sharing to him too) then that indicates a lack of trust and/or communication and can be a fair sized sign of a not so healthy relationship.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

My texts... just me shit talking about woke Democrats
My photos... nothing but memes
Browser history... nothing but porn or me asking Google random questions about mundane things like how long to I cook a frozen chicken thigh at 400 degrees.

Now where I've caught chicks fucking up... their social media messages. If they're smart enough to keep off that you'll find the dirt in apps like Kick, Line, or What's app. Only the really dumb ones that basically want to get caught have that shit going straight to their phone number.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

I don't need permission if I want to go in.. I figured out his code about 3 times but he doesn't do anything bad.. the worst I seen was he was driving some girl and other people to work and never told me about it.. other than that nothing suspicious and I would go through all apps and emails 🤣

I usually am pretty good at digging up dirt on people with the use of the internet, people tend to think I am creepy but I don't like to be lied to, and I will get any information I want if I want it.

Ezra_lila · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't touch nor open it. Maybe I'm afraid to see something that might hurt my feelings or to be on the spots I'm not aware.

Also, I don't want someone will touch my phone. The same goes to him as well. I can't do things that I don't like to do unto me.

AviatorTom · Answer

I wouldn't have asked. Her phone is her private property and I'm not about to violate it.

Apple1996 · Answer

Take sexy pics and not tell him so it'll be a surprise the next time he goes through his pics

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I wouldn't look through anything because doing expresses distrust, and I absolutely trust my partner.

pervertedjester · Answer

Text her Mom "Don't Worry, I'm Okay. Cops are Here." then turn off her phone off.

ohsheeT · Answer

I would just smile and say times up hand back the phone there are just somethings that I don't need to know about. If she's cheating it's only a matter of time that either or get
Cought. But I'm not going to not trust her until she gives me a reason.. I would rather hand it back and she would see in my eyes I do trust her

EricSummer · Answer

I would not have asked and I would not go through her phone. Her screen pattern that she uses as a password is very simple and she even showed me what it is.

Anyway, the difficulty with going through her communicationsvwould be that you do not have all the background and may misinterpret things.

Anyway, I trust her and she can have her privacy.

BeMuse · Answer

I wouldn’t want to go through their phone, but if they insisted, I’d probably just check which sort of applications they have installed to understand the level they are being spied on so I’m careful about what I say around them and their monitoring device (phone).

ImHere22 · Answer

I'd say thanks for the opportunity, but I don't have anything I feel like looking at. I trust her, and besides, what am I going to look for? She's the kind of person who would tell me if there's anything I really need to know, and I have zero fear or worry that she's doing anything malicious behind my back. And honestly, even if she were, eh, I don't have time for that kind of drama.

humanearth · Answer

We don't own any cellphones, so we don't have to worry about it All we have is the house phone This is all we use, because cellphones don't work in my area and I never want them to work here

richardcory · Answer

If you are trying to find out his secret kinks (a great reason to do that by the way), there are also sites like mojoupgrade that will let each of you fill in a survey of what you would like to try - then only tells you the ones the match

Of course the worst answer is finding out he doesn't have any fun kinks...

CaptainOverthink · Answer

I'd like an option not to.
But if I had to..
I'd adore her photoes or skim through her browser history as far back as I can go.
Her texts are her own, it's just too personal but generally I don't like the idea of snooping, it builds mistrust.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t ask, but if the phone was next to me and I saw a text come up with a woman’s name I don’t know then yes I’d question it a little bit. But if I know it’s part of his job then I’d understand. I say part of his job because I’m crushing on a guy that teaches people to fly, so it makes sense if I were to see a women’s name come up on his screen.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t be in that relationship. Open phones for each other always is the only thing I accept. The whole privacy thing is bullshit. There is none of that in a committed relationship. If we’re sharing our lives then we’re sharing our phones too. If he’s not willing to do that he’s either hiding something or don’t share my values and don’t see what all the problems and trust issues phones, and technology in general, are creating nowadays.

Anonymous · Answer

i don't really need to i guess -shrug- uh i guess if i absolutely have to i'll look through messages even tho we are a part of multiple group chats that i already know what he's talking about and who he's talking to, like... and i already know what kind of porn he watches so no surprises there. he doesn't like taking selfies so what is there in his camera roll? probably pics of food lol

Longshanks1968 · Answer

You should have added “I wouldn't go through it”
If I must check my partners phone then I have the wrong partner!
If my partner wants to check my phone, piss off, my phone and it's contents are personal and private.
If my partner thinks she must check my phone, then I have the wrong partner.

WonderBell99 · Answer

Don’t do that. It’s so disrespectful and you’re invading their privacy. I would never go through my partner’s phone. If I’m with them, I trust them 100%

BrookeAZ90 · Answer

If you're worried enough to feel the need to look through their phone, and they agreed to this in advance, then they obviously feel there's nothing incriminating on there, so it seems pointless.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I'd put the phone down, and walk away. I have no desire to invade someone's privacy like that.

MemeSupreme · Answer

i was thinking something similar to that or just take stupid pics of myself, but i wouldn't want to go in their phone and search through it. sounds like a violation of their privacy and just wrong

abc3643 · Answer

Give them their phone because they apparently misplaced it.

>>> I DON'T GO THROUGH MY WIFE'S PHONE BECAUSE IT IS A MATTER OF PRIVACY AND TRUST. I TRUST MY WIFE AND I DON'T NEED TO VERIFY THAT TRUST. AND HER BUSINESS IS HER BUSINESS.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

There's actually nothing in there I care to see other than some pics I asked her to forward to me that she hasn't... so i guess i grab them. We can unlock each other's phones actually, but we never go snooping in them.

boggboss · Answer

If I wanted to go through I know she would agree but I dont need to lol if u guys are in relationships where this is somthing u want or need ya need to sort ya shit out

ShesRad80 · Answer

i wouldn't do it to be honest. why dont you just bring it up in conversation about porn? just ask what are you into porn wise, make sure to say oh i saw this one and it was good etc

Samantha36 · Answer

My boyfriend went in my phone while I was asleep and took random selfies and rude pics of himself. Iv no idea if he went through anything else but not worried if he did

Notyouraveragecat · Answer

Take super cute and goofy selfies! Respect your partner's privacy, if you do not trust your partner, discuss your doubts with them, instead of going through their texts and emails

Paulalove98 · Answer

My new boyfriend has no issue with me going through his phone as I have no problem with him going through mine. We are very communicative and honest.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It would be pointless. Our phones are only used for work purposes. The rest of the time we have them switched off. We also share our phones so I already know there is nothing on there.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Nothing, she has a completely different smartphone and it would take me half an hour to just being able to use the phone. Also i can take her phone and use it whenever i wan't and vice versa.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I would not ask, because it's irrelevant to me. Anyhow - I'd install a funny surprise that she sees next time she's using it. That could be a wallpaper, or the phone language set to... say... Swaheli?

OldWomanBySoul · Answer

For whatever reason, guys have always the most bizarre photos on their phones and I feel like I would find some hilarious shit there so definitely photos

RingOfFire · Answer

"The reason I want to get into his phone, particularly his browser history, is I want to see what kind of porn he's watching so I can do something special for him"

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

TooHot2Care · Answer

Browser History, I wanna know how much of a freak she is and if she is into those off-brand animes. (You will not BELIEVE how many girls are into hentai. . . Seriously, you women are freaks. . . I love it.)

Agape93 · Answer

Browser history. Why? I want to see what she googles when she's high lol

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It’s easy & I’ll check the settings & make sure the software & security features are all up to date.

bowenw · Answer

I wouldn't look at anything unless it's for a reason like you mentioned to find out what kind of porn they are interested it, although I would probably just ask them.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I dont need to look through someones phone. Plus people delete stuff they often dont want to be seen anyways

snowboarder720 · Answer

Quickly send “sometimes in private I like to dress up like Shirley Temple and spank myself with a hockey stick.” to his mother.

qwert1234 · Answer

Nothing. Just give phone back, waste of time. If I really have to look at something, for the sake of the question... History maybe? So I can have ideas for gifts..

EssenceOfLight · Answer

I don't f... care. If she want cheats on she will do it anyway, no matter if I check her phone or I don't. Her best female friend will be anyway incapable to keep her moth shot if my partner cheat, they will do always subtle remarks. Always.

loveslongnails · Answer

I wouldn't ask, nor would I look if handed the phone. If you want to know what porn he likes, ask him and watch some with him.

its_amelia_c · Answer

If you are with someone that you need to go through their phone your relationship is domed!

Camelia7012 · Answer

Try to forget about the phone, its for the best. For the sex just ask him

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I wouldn't do it. I've been down that road many times and I've decided I'd rather be happy

sassy_receptor · Answer

go through his photos because i want to laugh at his cringey pics

Adam1978 · Answer

I would never ask, period. There is nothing random of any of my actions or questions.

Tamera952 · Answer

Even if this scenario were a thing, you should decline, & put his phone down out of respect.

Surely · Answer

At least you have an ulterior motive other than just snooping. You could always ask about watching porn together and see what gets is motor racing!

Sofie1999_ · Answer

To google if their phone next to them. My partner has permission to go through mine I got nothing to hide. I can go through mine. Cause we trust each other. Hiding phone makes me think you’s got something to hide.

mobjay82 · Answer

If I have to go through her phone then it’s already over

jshm2 · Answer

Nothing, Talking it out is better than spying it out.

RHK36 · Answer

I wouldn't because I'm not insecure. So whatever lame excuse you have to be nosy, just ask him instead of being extra.

Reorx · Answer

I hand it back without looking for anything, wouldn't waste time on someone I couldn't trust; if I cared enough I'd just use a crawler script to mine all their data, looks through archives too.

Anonymous · Answer

100% not interested, its none of my business and i wouldn't ask, to ask is to declare that you have no trust and therefore no relationship.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I download a video of me on his phone to surprise him.

Anonymous · Answer

i guess i'd look through her photo's cause she's pretty hot and be curious to see what pictures she's taken of ehr self

Still-alive · Answer

decide 'what a dumb question that is' and refuse to go through their phone because i trust them and their own privacy.

mommymommymommy · Answer

I don't go through it. As jews, we uh, we try to get you to feel guilty on your own (that is, if you're doing anything shady)

nawtee_me · Answer

Go to notes and write I love and trust you, here is you phone back.

CreatingWonders · Answer

I wouldn’t ask, even if my partner gave me their phone I wouldn’t look through it, it’s none of my business what they have on their phones.

linka_pat307 · Answer

For your information, browser history can be deleted

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