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going by what you updated us with here. thats a bit tricky considering, unless this is a very new relationship, this is the kind of info that should already be known between partners. then again, if this relationship is so new that you have to stoop to these kinds of tactics, then you should probably not be getting this intimate yet anyways. now if this is an otherwise well established relationship and he has not shared this type of info (or you sharing to him too) then that indicates a lack of trust and/or communication and can be a fair sized sign of a not so healthy relationship.0
I don't need permission if I want to go in.. I figured out his code about 3 times but he doesn't do anything bad.. the worst I seen was he was driving some girl and other people to work and never told me about it.. other than that nothing suspicious and I would go through all apps and emails 🤣
I usually am pretty good at digging up dirt on people with the use of the internet, people tend to think I am creepy but I don't like to be lied to, and I will get any information I want if I want it.0
I wouldn't touch nor open it. Maybe I'm afraid to see something that might hurt my feelings or to be on the spots I'm not aware.
Also, I don't want someone will touch my phone. The same goes to him as well. I can't do things that I don't like to do unto me.0
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I wouldn't have asked. Her phone is her private property and I'm not about to violate it.90
Take sexy pics and not tell him so it'll be a surprise the next time he goes through his pics56
I wouldn't look through anything because doing expresses distrust, and I absolutely trust my partner.40
Text her Mom "Don't Worry, I'm Okay. Cops are Here." then turn off her phone off.0
I would just smile and say times up hand back the phone there are just somethings that I don't need to know about. If she's cheating it's only a matter of time that either or get
Cought. But I'm not going to not trust her until she gives me a reason.. I would rather hand it back and she would see in my eyes I do trust her20
I would not have asked and I would not go through her phone. Her screen pattern that she uses as a password is very simple and she even showed me what it is.
Anyway, the difficulty with going through her communicationsvwould be that you do not have all the background and may misinterpret things.
Anyway, I trust her and she can have her privacy.0
I wouldn’t want to go through their phone, but if they insisted, I’d probably just check which sort of applications they have installed to understand the level they are being spied on so I’m careful about what I say around them and their monitoring device (phone).0
I'd say thanks for the opportunity, but I don't have anything I feel like looking at. I trust her, and besides, what am I going to look for? She's the kind of person who would tell me if there's anything I really need to know, and I have zero fear or worry that she's doing anything malicious behind my back. And honestly, even if she were, eh, I don't have time for that kind of drama.0
We don't own any cellphones, so we don't have to worry about it
All we have is the house phone2
If you are trying to find out his secret kinks (a great reason to do that by the way), there are also sites like mojoupgrade that will let each of you fill in a survey of what you would like to try - then only tells you the ones the match
Of course the worst answer is finding out he doesn't have any fun kinks...0
I'd like an option not to.
But if I had to..
I'd adore her photoes or skim through her browser history as far back as I can go.
Her texts are her own, it's just too personal but generally I don't like the idea of snooping, it builds mistrust.0
I wouldn’t ask, but if the phone was next to me and I saw a text come up with a woman’s name I don’t know then yes I’d question it a little bit. But if I know it’s part of his job then I’d understand. I say part of his job because I’m crushing on a guy that teaches people to fly, so it makes sense if I were to see a women’s name come up on his screen.0
I wouldn’t be in that relationship. Open phones for each other always is the only thing I accept. The whole privacy thing is bullshit. There is none of that in a committed relationship. If we’re sharing our lives then we’re sharing our phones too. If he’s not willing to do that he’s either hiding something or don’t share my values and don’t see what all the problems and trust issues phones, and technology in general, are creating nowadays.0
i don't really need to i guess -shrug- uh i guess if i absolutely have to i'll look through messages even tho we are a part of multiple group chats that i already know what he's talking about and who he's talking to, like... and i already know what kind of porn he watches so no surprises there. he doesn't like taking selfies so what is there in his camera roll? probably pics of food lol1
Don’t do that. It’s so disrespectful and you’re invading their privacy. I would never go through my partner’s phone. If I’m with them, I trust them 100%31
If you're worried enough to feel the need to look through their phone, and they agreed to this in advance, then they obviously feel there's nothing incriminating on there, so it seems pointless.10
I'd put the phone down, and walk away.
I have no desire to invade someone's privacy like that.21
i was thinking something similar to that or just take stupid pics of myself, but i wouldn't want to go in their phone and search through it. sounds like a violation of their privacy and just wrong0
Give them their phone because they apparently misplaced it.
>>> I DON'T GO THROUGH MY WIFE'S PHONE BECAUSE IT IS A MATTER OF PRIVACY AND TRUST. I TRUST MY WIFE AND I DON'T NEED TO VERIFY THAT TRUST. AND HER BUSINESS IS HER BUSINESS.0
My texts... just me shit talking about woke Democrats
My photos... nothing but memes
Browser history... nothing but porn or me asking Google random questions about mundane things like how long to I cook a frozen chicken thigh at 400 degrees.
Now where I've caught chicks fucking up... their social media messages. If they're smart enough to keep off that you'll find the dirt in apps like Kick, Line, or What's app. Only the really dumb ones that basically want to get caught have that shit going straight to their phone number.