He’s seeing other women but he said he will kill me if I did the same?

[xolaurenxx]

I’ve been dating a guy 8 months, I’m 3 months pregnant with his child. The past week he has stood me up at night, when I call him his phones off or he hangs up.

I sound crazy and like a conspiracy theory woman but it’s a coincidence the woman I am suspecting he’s sleeping with posted that she can’t wait for her sneaky link appointment tonight.

He disappears on me every Friday and Saturday the days she dosent have her kid. I always bring her up and he yells and screams and calls me childish and horrible, as soon as I bought her up they both unfollowed each other but still like each others posts. He told me he can do what he wants when he wants and if I think about doing what I want he will kill me. I took this as a joke but I saw his ex girlfriend posted a video about how he abused her and threatened to kill her etc.

I feel trapped, I know he’s sleeping with her and I have no proof but I know he’s sleeping with her, Do I have the right to bring this up considering I’m not actually his girlfriend but I’m his baby mom/girl he’s dating? I’m so so hurt and angry. I make him food, I save him food, I put it aside, and every weekend he disappears with her. I don’t even look pregnant right now so I don’t know how he will treat me when I do. He tells me he loves me all the time and he treats me like shit. Am I allowed to call him out on this or can I not since I’m not his offical girlfriend?

[RespectfulGuy]

Dump him and move on. Fast!

Decide if you want to keep the child. 3 to 4 months can still have abortion by medication.

Hurry. He's a narcissist. The longer you stay with him, the more depressed your life will be.

A sympathiser.

[Anonymous]

This is the guy you chose to have a baby with? I'm guessing it wasn't planned. You're not his girlfriend, you're not his wife. You've made some really bad decisions.

You're going to be a single parent. He's not going to be monogamous and does not sound like father material. He doesn't sound good for you either.

I'd suggest abortion but I think we're probably past that now.

[xolaurenxx]

I hate myself for saying it but yes if I knew he was this way I wouldn’t have went through with the pregnancy. I’m 5 months now it’s too late and I love the baby already i alrrady feel a connection but I’m constantly sad because of him

[xolaurenxx]

And the way he treats me

[petitedollbabee]

So why are you still with him, pregnancy aside? Sounds like he presents nothing positive in your life. You’re pretty sure he’s cheating, he doesn’t appreciate you and treats you like crap, he’s dangerous and a threat to your wellbeing… why stay? You’ve only been together for 8 months, you can leave at any time. You’re not married and you don’t live together.

[ArwenCalcifur]

@petitedollbabee I agree completely with you. This seems like the highest level of toxicity, to the point of clear and present danger. She should avoid him at all costs.

[Avicenna]

Well, I'd cut this guy out of your life if I were you.

[Mangospacho]

Oh he sounds like a great guy 🙄 Unfortunately, you are going to need to get some law enforcement involved since he has casually threatened to kill you. Get an emergency protective order first then prepare for the hearing for the permanent protective order by documenting his threats

[Spade_01]

So he's being a.) a hypocrite and b.) danger to your life. He's making you angry and upset and you're still with him because?

[richardcory]

He sounds dangerous and abusive. Get out of this situation. He is not going to be good for you or your child

[abc3643]

DUMP
HIM
NOW

And buy a small handgun while you are at it and take practice shooting it...
... You may need it after you dump him.

[stepyo99]

How is this even a question?

Yeah, the dude sounds like a real sweetheart, you should probably propose marriage to him.

[LiamJHayden]

Get as far away from that psycho as you can.

[justabuddy]

In a word... Run away.

[Anonymous]

Most men are hypocrites. Dump him NOW!

[ArwenCalcifur]

Leave now! Avoid at all costs!!

[mommymommymommy]

Red flag galore