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Always? No.
Always is not possible because priorities can shift. If I make a commitment to have dinner with someone, but I have to go to a meeting, then I apologize and reschedule. Once I reschedule, they are now my priority and I will not reschedule that thing again.
If my priorities are:
1) paying my bills + being alive
2) my partner and my cat
3) work
4) etc.
But then I have an important work deadline coming up, I will let my partner know that I may be less available. If I know that whatever Iām working on is going to take a lot of time, and effort, I will plan out spaces for us to have time. If I procrastinate, and canāt spend that time with them, then I will catch up and will try to make the next time special.
If my cat gets hurt, Iām not going to work (and if you make me chose between my cat and my partnerā¦ I wonāt).10 Reply
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My texts come straight up on my work computer I can be helping people and responding as long as I can focus on both but I usually reply in under 5-10 minutes max. My family is my number 1 priority I work yes but my husband and kids are my world they are who love me and who I love
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5.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. False. You get what you give in life. This is a lesson in life so many women have not learned. I do my best on here to let women know that being a woman isn't enough, anymore than just being a guy is enough. You have to be somebody of substance. You have to give that person a reason to pursue you. Women complain that guys quit making an effort with women. Well, that judgmental paintbrush goes both ways. She has to give him a reason to keep working for her. Yes, when things are going well this is healthy and unforced. But that's when there's trust, communication and honesty for BOTH genders.
So bottom line: you want to get you gotta give. 👍
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True, to a point. Their is a bit of understanding that comes with that. You can't ask a person to risk their job for you or go to that level. But they will do the best they can.
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785 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Thats not you at work. And yes they will make time for you always, even when it not the type of time you may want, or in the ways you may expect it.
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Yeah.
I've given up and sacrificed going to things for my previous boyfriends and girlfriend.
When my ex girlfriend consistently fell through on her plans with me, I left her.
I won't force someone to be with me if they're not making the effort to try themselves. It's not in my best interest and clearly the other person either doesn't respect me enough to make time for me, or they're too busy to give me the sort of relationship I want (which is fairly hands off, just physically and mentally active).10 Reply - 1 y
Oh, I'd text back too. But it might take longer. The customers might not be very understanding. See, even if your text is urgent, the five seconds it takes me to respond is another five seconds they have to wait before they can buy their White Claw and Marlboro.
40 Reply 849 opinions shared on Relationships topic. This is true because that person just loves being around you he loves what you make him feel like and he also can feel that he makes you feel something to when is real from both people there are some people that like other people but that other people doesn't like them is the way that he likes her or vice versa so it's kind of sucks but it is also a learning experience and we all must go through to find out either who we are or who that person is within
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Yes and no.
If someone I care about needs me - I will make the time, outside of work time. When I'm at work my priority is work - nothing else.
If it's someone who's texting to small talk - I will only reply, if I'm in the mood to socialize, which my introverted ass isn't always in the mood for - especially on work streaks. I work a very socially demanding job - which drains me. I like myself - so I prioritise time for me.
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I would like for that to be true, but people are so complex. A lot of times when a person likes you, they're honest about it but when it comes to their actions, they don't put in the effort to get a relationship going. I fear humanity is plummeting into a fast abyss!
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It widely depends on what they're doing and how much time they need to make. As far as texting goes, I firmly believe that if someone isn't texting you back, it's because they don't want to, or they keep forgetting (which does happen and it's nothing to take personal).
I can only think of a handful of times where I genuinely couldn't text back. No one is THAT busy all the time.10 Reply - 1 y
If I really like someone, then Iāll have to make time for everything/everyone else. Because whomever Iām into is already likely a priority
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Thank you :)
474 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Depends, If your expecting him to text back after a date then your right he should text you back if he likes you, But if your expecting a Guy to make the first move then there is already a 80% chance he won't because he is afraid of getting rejected and/or thought of as a Creep.
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I believe in this but that depends on the circumstances. You could meet a potential partner who is a law student or mathematics or medicine.
So time regulation could be complicated and you both would meet only once a month.
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I learned to be considerate and understanding with the high demands of some workers Iāve datedā¦ you canāt always get what you want when you want. Their days off our precious and if the really like you, they will spend time with you
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Some time yes. Any time, no. Some people have work or other commitments that limit when they are available, and its unreasonable to ask them to drop those commitments.
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Macro level, yes. I can find time "in my life" for you.
Micro level, absolutely not. I have something at work that is time sensitive. I don't have time for you this week. Sorry.10 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I would say True.
If you are important to me I will figure out how to spend time with you.11 Reply3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think this is true about spending time in person, not texting. This is also a two way street, I won't make time for a woman who won't make time for me.
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Yes. Even if there isnāt time today, they will try tomorrow
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Lol. Nice meme. This is true. But I'm not allowed to use my phone at work.
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That's true, I was suppose to be lifting impact glass at my last job and I was behind a crate texting the girl I liked at the moment, no excuses 😂
10 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. You do what is important to you. If itās important enough, you will find a way.. pure and simple.
Same with exercise and same with diet.
If itās important enough to you, youāll do it11 Reply1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I believe most people would make time for you. I certainly would.
13 Reply- 1 y
It would be nice but unfortunately doesn't go that smooth all the time.
10 Reply 391 opinions shared on Relationships topic. True, if I like someone and like to be with them, I will always find time to spend with them.
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Sometime my phone beats for a message but I am busy and all my notifications sound the same...
... lol10 Reply 988 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Not true, world is full of shit that would ruin your life, if you don't priorities it before a partner. Will does help but it won't solve immediate problems, you might move mountains if you got a lifetime but who is waiting for that?
00 ReplyI agree one hundred percent as long as the other person is not asking for too much time, which will make it difficult.
A little time for someone you love is definitely possible.10 Reply- 1 y
False. Being constantly texting back and forth your flirt sets a bad dynamic.
10 Reply I don't constantly check on my phone, I am highly insensitive to the phone volume and vibration.
10 ReplyTrue if they want you they will make a way to be with you. Wanting to spend time with you.
10 ReplyI don't know about always, but I'm sure they would at least certainly try.
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Mostly but not always. This saying isn't for relationships though
10 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Pretty true. Nothings absolute of course. But this is close.
10 ReplyI think true, might not be lots of time but I know I do.
10 ReplyI think there is a point where this would get to be to much that you wouldn't get anything you need done.
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True if they arenāt their just looking for that day. Or their playing games.
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I believe that it can be true. Even if it's a small amount of time in the day
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This is definitely a massive female delusion because a guy will only try so hard before getting tired of the female games and shit tests.
00 Reply Eh. Not so sure about this.
10 Reply6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. True, but it may not be as much as you would like
10 Reply6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It is true in most cases.
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That's true. I agree with you
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True, they always can
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I think that is very true.
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Yes. Depending in how I treat her.
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Pure gentleman, noble, kindness, influenced, and patient š
1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I won't make time lol
10 Reply3.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Sometimes true. Not always.
10 Reply498 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I believe this wholeheartedly.
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False. They can't always make time.
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Thanks for like!
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They can prioritize you in most circumstances it will come very easy to them that this can be done some other time. I rather spend time with her.
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It is much better if you can understand that how important this thing is for him and say go ahead babe take care of it I am sure you are going to make up next time.
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With me.
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And again he should have clear understanding how he is going t9 make up. Or he is good enough in that area. Or you must say that he is doing a great favor to us by going to inlaws with smile of course.
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Going to *
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Next time that is.
False. They won't.
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True 💯
20 Reply 1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yeah they will unless they are married etc.
00 ReplyTrue.
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True.
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I say true
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In my opinion, yes.
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Also, funny picture. Haha
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True
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True.
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True.
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