If there’s a will, there’s always a way. If a person really likes you, they’ll always make time for you. True or false?
Always? No.
Always is not possible because priorities can shift. If I make a commitment to have dinner with someone, but I have to go to a meeting, then I apologize and reschedule. Once I reschedule, they are now my priority and I will not reschedule that thing again.
If my priorities are:
1) paying my bills + being alive
2) my partner and my cat
3) work
4) etc.
But then I have an important work deadline coming up, I will let my partner know that I may be less available. If I know that whatever Iām working on is going to take a lot of time, and effort, I will plan out spaces for us to have time. If I procrastinate, and canāt spend that time with them, then I will catch up and will try to make the next time special.
If my cat gets hurt, Iām not going to work (and if you make me chose between my cat and my partnerā¦ I wonāt).
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My texts come straight up on my work computer I can be helping people and responding as long as I can focus on both but I usually reply in under 5-10 minutes max. My family is my number 1 priority I work yes but my husband and kids are my world they are who love me and who I love
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False. You get what you give in life. This is a lesson in life so many women have not learned. I do my best on here to let women know that being a woman isn't enough, anymore than just being a guy is enough. You have to be somebody of substance. You have to give that person a reason to pursue you. Women complain that guys quit making an effort with women. Well, that judgmental paintbrush goes both ways. She has to give him a reason to keep working for her. Yes, when things are going well this is healthy and unforced. But that's when there's trust, communication and honesty for BOTH genders.
So bottom line: you want to get you gotta give. 👍
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True, to a point. Their is a bit of understanding that comes with that. You can't ask a person to risk their job for you or go to that level. But they will do the best they can.
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Thats not you at work. And yes they will make time for you always, even when it not the type of time you may want, or in the ways you may expect it.
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Yeah.
I've given up and sacrificed going to things for my previous boyfriends and girlfriend.
When my ex girlfriend consistently fell through on her plans with me, I left her.
I won't force someone to be with me if they're not making the effort to try themselves. It's not in my best interest and clearly the other person either doesn't respect me enough to make time for me, or they're too busy to give me the sort of relationship I want (which is fairly hands off, just physically and mentally active). - 565 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Oh, I'd text back too. But it might take longer. The customers might not be very understanding. See, even if your text is urgent, the five seconds it takes me to respond is another five seconds they have to wait before they can buy their White Claw and Marlboro.
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This is true because that person just loves being around you he loves what you make him feel like and he also can feel that he makes you feel something to when is real from both people there are some people that like other people but that other people doesn't like them is the way that he likes her or vice versa so it's kind of sucks but it is also a learning experience and we all must go through to find out either who we are or who that person is within
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Yes and no.
If someone I care about needs me - I will make the time, outside of work time. When I'm at work my priority is work - nothing else.
If it's someone who's texting to small talk - I will only reply, if I'm in the mood to socialize, which my introverted ass isn't always in the mood for - especially on work streaks. I work a very socially demanding job - which drains me. I like myself - so I prioritise time for me.
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I would like for that to be true, but people are so complex. A lot of times when a person likes you, they're honest about it but when it comes to their actions, they don't put in the effort to get a relationship going. I fear humanity is plummeting into a fast abyss!
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It widely depends on what they're doing and how much time they need to make. As far as texting goes, I firmly believe that if someone isn't texting you back, it's because they don't want to, or they keep forgetting (which does happen and it's nothing to take personal).
I can only think of a handful of times where I genuinely couldn't text back. No one is THAT busy all the time. - 3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
If I really like someone, then Iāll have to make time for everything/everyone else. Because whomever Iām into is already likely a priority
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Depends, If your expecting him to text back after a date then your right he should text you back if he likes you, But if your expecting a Guy to make the first move then there is already a 80% chance he won't because he is afraid of getting rejected and/or thought of as a Creep.
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I believe in this but that depends on the circumstances. You could meet a potential partner who is a law student or mathematics or medicine.
So time regulation could be complicated and you both would meet only once a month.
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I learned to be considerate and understanding with the high demands of some workers Iāve datedā¦ you canāt always get what you want when you want. Their days off our precious and if the really like you, they will spend time with you
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Some time yes. Any time, no. Some people have work or other commitments that limit when they are available, and its unreasonable to ask them to drop those commitments.
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I would say True.
If you are important to me I will figure out how to spend time with you. - 427 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Macro level, yes. I can find time "in my life" for you.
Micro level, absolutely not. I have something at work that is time sensitive. I don't have time for you this week. Sorry. - 3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I think this is true about spending time in person, not texting. This is also a two way street, I won't make time for a woman who won't make time for me.
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Yes. Even if there isnāt time today, they will try tomorrow
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Lol. Nice meme. This is true. But I'm not allowed to use my phone at work.
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That's true, I was suppose to be lifting impact glass at my last job and I was behind a crate texting the girl I liked at the moment, no excuses 😂
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You do what is important to you. If itās important enough, you will find a way.. pure and simple.
Same with exercise and same with diet.
If itās important enough to you, youāll do it - 883 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I believe most people would make time for you. I certainly would.
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