what is your ick in a significant other mine is constantly lying to me
bad communication - silent treatement, unwillingness to discuss things and impossible to agree on something, fear of conflicts
selfishness - lack of general effort, lack of empathy
promiscuity - not loyal, vulgar, inappropriate, pushy, making me feel uncomfortable
being unrealiable, liar, making promises you cannot keep, not respecting my boundaries, disrespecting me, being pushy, shaming, blaming, being rude, being too stubborn, controlling, being boring-unwilling to do anything fun...
Obviously I've been tru a lot lol
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My ex was the king of gaslighting. If I said we need to be ready by 5, five would roll around, he wouldn't be ready and then he would go on and on about how I never told him. I'd be like, here is the text I sent, do you remember when I called you this morning to remind you, and I also wrote it on the calendar a month ago, so how in the world are you now trying to convince me I never told you so now I'm at fault for us about to be late. It drove me insane how much he did this. He made it so I was never right or competent enough. Lessons learned for sure. It felt so good to go into the next relationship and feel like I could mention something or say something and I wasn't made to feel incompetent or crazy.
Lack of communication. I'm not a godd***ed mind reader. If you have something really bothering you you should have no problem communicating it. If you think I'm stupid for not seeing it. Explain it! I seldom make the same mistake twice. Odds are you won't have to do it again. But ANYTHING else comes off as you just want to be mad and stew. And no guy wants to deal with that s***.
If that lying is constant you might have a manipulative liar on your hands but either ways mine would be if their form of solving a problem was the silent treatment
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I wouldn't say I hated this but it is a bit annoying. So Im the type of person where I am very open and I talk my problems, he is a bit more private and it takes him longer to talk about things that bugs him or that he is dealing with. I have to keep reminding myself that we are two different people and dont force things.
Poor body language, no boundaries and doesn’t communicate, makes excuses for their life, messy home, messy vehicle (inside and out), no job, can’t cook, doesn’t clean up afterwards, lives with roommates visa versa, flirtatious personality, the basics really not much to ask
Being jealous of me and what I have achieved when I worked so hard to get here
Failure to communicate and insecurities.
My husband lacks in keeping a space organized
Being so hung up on the idea of "equality" that she's willing to destroy our relationship because of it.
Mine is total lack of self-control and rage issues.
Lack of communication is a big one.
Inconsistency.
Flaking
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