Here's the situation. I've been dating this girl now for a little over a half a year. In the beginning everything was amazing and fine. I loved her and she loved me. Overtime she began to change. She stopped being the girl that I really liked and fell in love with and became a person who was cold and mean to me. I brought up to her that I feel as though she's changed but she just told me that she became more comfortable with me and this is just who she is. She's not very nice to me. She hurts my feelings all the time to the point of making me want to cry. I get very nervous whenever the phone is ringing and it's her because I feel like she's gonna say something to make me feel bad or say something to hurt me.
This is so sad because I truly do love this girl but my feelings for her are really starting to change. I don't really get super excited to see her and talk to her anymore. She's hurt me so much and whenever I look at her I feel like she isn't the kind of woman that I want to be with, being that she's not nice to me when I'm only nice to her. I treat her like an absolute princess and give her whatever she wants but she's very selfish with me and does whatever she wants & puts my feelings on the back burner. I asked her if she would be sad if I left and she said of course. Anytime that I stop being affectionate, she becomes unhappy with me but I don't want to be affectionate when she isn't reciprocating. I tell her I love her and all the lovey dovey stuff and she just ignores me. She says I'm the best person she has ever met, the best thing that's happened to her, and she can't replace me. But she treats me bad.. her ex's have complained the same thing. I don't have any prior relationship experience.
Am I wrong for staying in the relationship and not allowing her to find another man that will likely love her more than I ever will? I would love to hear your thoughts and please share your experiences if you've had any similar. Thank you :)
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