My baby dad is angry at me for this - Opinions?

[Anonymous]

I’m 21 years old. I’m not exactly the most financially stable ever but I am stable for my age. I’m 7 months pregnant. At the beginning my baby dad didn’t want anything to do with our baby so I ended up looking for flats by myself without him, I found one which I’M paying for and which is the best one on the market. It fell through when we were talking again and making our relationship work again but went back together again and im moving in in 2 weeks.

he’s yelling at me shouting saying he does not like the house? He is not living there anyway? I am paying for it? Im paying 700 a month which is a LOT for someone my age. He’s Said he really likes the inside but he dosent like the area and he’s refusing to talk to me?

The area is not bad it’s literally 30 seconds away from the most expensive area in our city? Although it’s a 5 min drive from an area that he does not like? Nothings wrong with the area that he does not like he just does not like it? He’s not paying a penny towards the house? He’s living at his moms? We aren’t in a relationship as he said he dosent want one until another few years and dosent wanna live with me for another few years?

Am I in the wrong here for buying a flat that is lovely and that I like for me and my son? It was the best one I could afford the rest were 1,000 a month which is ridiculous for a 21 year old. Most women he’s speaks to at 21 still live with their parents anyway? I feel bad that he does not like the flat? He’s not paying and not helping but he’s sulking because he dosent like it?

I come from a rich family so I think he expected me to have a mansion as my first time home? But 700 along with bills is a lot for me considering he is not helping? The flat honestly was the best on the market and so big and friendly neighbourhood for our son. He’s also saying I’m rushing but I have 2 months until I give birth and I want to be settled in the home and it decorated?

[BasedBaeBecca]

You're not in the wrong for making a decision that's best for you and your son, especially if you're the one paying for it. As you said, he's not living with you and not contributing financially, so you have every right to choose the flat that is most comfortable for you and your baby. He's entitled to his own opinion about the area, but ultimately, it's your choice, not his. Try not to let his attitude and comments get to you, and focus on the things that are important to you, like creating a nice home for yourself and your child.

[Anonymous]

Well this is what happens when you let yourself get knocked up by little boys.

[Asker]

Yes very true! Hopefully young women read this and stay away cause it is what happens