Is it okay for the girl to say “I love you” first? And is it okay to say to your significant other for the first time over text? (Page 2)

[ElvenMr]

It's okay to say it first. It'd be better if you could say it to him in person, but it's nice throught text as well.

[imfreeze95]

I would say yes just be prepared for an awkward response. Even if he does love you men dont express emotions as readily as women as a general rule.

[AimeeKyle]

Absolutely, no issues. Go with your feelings.

[007kingifrit]

yes girl can say it first, but text is a bit silly

[MadhuriDixit]

Of course it's OK... its 2023!

[slatyb]

Someone has to be first.

[dreamer123912]

Say it in person or on video call

[RavVid]

Don't see why not. Someone has to be first.

[BarryLiverstone]

When will you see next time irl?

[Carolinagirl04]

Next weekend. Friday

[BarryLiverstone]

Wait for then.

[Carolinagirl04]

I know I should but it’s just driving me like crazy I just want to tell him!! It’s a really crazy feeling actually…. I feel like those people you see in like a 90s movie

[BarryLiverstone]

Go ahead and write him a love letter. Use pen and paper, no computers. Write out all your feelings and keep going until you are empty. That’s not only going to help you with your rush of emotions but then before you see him read it so you better know what to say to him next weekend. You then choose to give him the letter or not.

[Carolinagirl04]

Thanks that really helped! But what if I said it on like FaceTime? Or should I just wait?

[BarryLiverstone]

Wait

[genericname85]

i don't see a problem with it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Of course it's okay! 🙂

[whistlingwh0res]

my gaydar telling me he is gay

[whistlingwh0res]

free your lesbian side. you will be much happier

[SnowedIn]

Totally okay, yes!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yup.

[clampfan101]

Yes, and yes.