As a teenager I smoked a lot of weed and I know people will disagree, but it can seriously drive you crazy and it's just a fucked up habit.
He's lucky to have a woman like you that's mature and wants to work and build a life with him.
Don't marry him if he won't stop smoking weed. You've matured and honesty I'd never do that to the woman I love.
He's not going to pass the drug test and you two both need stable jobs to build a stable life together. You have every right to be upset and this could seriously damage your future.
I myself am a nightshift worker and had to grow up. Nightshift Is not easy and I can only just imagine how horrible it must be to come home and find your partners old weed wrappers everywhere and your home stinking of weed.
If he seriously loves you, he's gotta stop now. Express just how much you hate his habit and don't be afraid to leave if he doesn't.
Stay strong.
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I get why you're pissed. I would be pissed too. I think your best bet is to just wait until the drug test happens and see whether he passes.
Smoking weed within 2 weeks doesn't automatically mean failure, but smoking was definitely a bad idea.
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You have full right to be pissed.
You both had agreed on something that required quitting then announces his intention to quit.
The fact you said way before any of these events that you were fine with it is of no relevance anymore. It was a desperate attempt to avoid the responsibility and consequences of his actions.Are you sure you want to marry him? Can you trust him to hold up his half of the marriage?
No, you're wrong for picking a bum who doesn't want to work though. You're also wrong if you stay with him.
If it causes actual consequences like him not being able to get a job then you are right to be mad. If he can still get a job by using the fake urine to pass the drug test then you have no right to be mad.
no sadly you are growing up and he isn't. every girl your age eventually learns a pot head is not a good partner, he isn't going to get better as weed is addictive and this isn't going to be a working relationship for you much longer
You have to do drug tests… for a job? 😳
In the „land of the free“?This is why you don't get involved with druggies. He will never give it up/
The framing is incorrect and the cause of the problem.
This isn't about weed its about a drug test.
Your boyfriend is a villain who wakes up everyday ready to hurt your feelings.
you obviously like living with a deadbeat loser and supporting him otherwise you would of left him a long time ago
He prefers not to work, obviously.
Dump him, never date a druggy.
of course you are right
doesn't seem like you're on the same page
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