Would you help someone out of a bad relationship?

[mattclark242]

would you help someone out of a bad relationship? for you. Like if you saw a guy at the store or public with a girl and she was not treating him right. would you walked over there and tell him about it? Like tell him why you think she treating him wrong and tell him that you are single and would treat him good. maybe when she not looking or is in the bathroom or not by him. Like when he by him self.

If you saw a Guy not treating a girl right would you pull her aside and tell her what you think wrong with the relationship or the guy? then maybe tell her your single and would treat her good. Then ask her or see if she want to leave the s relationship.

what you think when you see guys or women in bad relationship in public?

When I was with my ex I had to girl look at me at the store think why are you with her she just want you money and thing. They laugh at me or well maybe her I don't know.

Updates

8 mo

Do you know why the 2 girls at the store where laugh at me? or where they laugh at her? Or laugh at the fact that I did not want buy her lot of snacks and food at the store? They seem to follow me or her at the store down every aisle I think she know them.

Also there was an other 2 girl at another store laugh at me or us or maybe just her. when we want to checkout counter.

They seem to think it was funny that I did not want buy her more stuff. also she got mad they where ahead of us why?

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8 mo

why she get mad and want to leave so fast?

[midnightmoon05]

That sounds very immature. Many at 25 are raising a family…educate the next generation to be treating each other well.
I don’t know where you are and where you shop…. all just sounds like middle school immature behaviors. It’s so sad to see.

personally when most people go shopping…we have a goal, we go buy our foods, pay, then go home and have other things to do.

in terms of other peoples (strangers) relationships … stay away. We don’t know their details. They need to learn to work out their own relationships.
If there is a fight of some sort…I would say, is everything okay? To the girl. I would never say…oh…why are you with a cry baby… I am prettier than your girlfriend. You should leave her. This just sounds like very sneaky and disrespectful.

[WhitneySnow]

A random stranger? No I wouldn’t. My friends I would.

[Lynx122]

I don't know most people who are stuck in these things have justified it all in their head and usually have issues themselves and it's hard to actually change their minds about anything because then they'd have to accept reality and they don't wanna do that. They wanna think they're in the perfect relationship with just a few hiccups. At least some people. I think it's a lot more complicated than people think to get someone out of a bad relationship if they don't want it themselves. If someone gets physically assaulted right in front of me I'll do something but with the rest they have to decide for themselves that they want to get out or professionals should help them.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I might say it in the bathroom away from her. But I'm not going to do it in front of her. And I'd only do it in a positive way. I'm not about to run a woman down. But I will tell another guy when I think he needs to stand tall and remember who he is. That's part of being a man 101.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure if this counts like relationship wise? But I've gone up to girls in stores when I see them mistreating their little brothers. I'm not talking about just calling him names, I'm talking about if she is being physically mean to him. Like slapping him or dragging him along like he was a dog. I once saw these girls at the beach with their little brother and they kept pulling down his swim trunks he was crying and they were laughing at him. I said something to them and was told by their mother to mind my own business. She said boys don't need modesty like a girl does. I hate when girls treat their little brothers differently just because they are boys. I used to do that with my little brother then realized that it's wrong. Boys have feelings just like girls do.

[ChadHelpsBros]

Listen, bro, it's never a good idea to try and break people up or interfere in their relationships. You never know the full story or what the situation is, it could be very personal and sensitive for them. It's not up to you to try and make decisions for other people, so it's best to steer clear of that. My advice is to stick to your own life and don't try to interfere with other people's business.

[mattclark242]

Ok what if I am the one in a bad relationship? or why did the other girl look at me when my ex girlfriend was asking me to buy her self lot of food and snack at the store?

Did they feel bad for me? why where they laughing at me? or where they laughing at her? Did they know she use me for money. ? this they think that I should have a better girl?

[BoopBoopBeep]

They could be laughing because you/her are/is ugly/hot/tall/smelly or a billion other things. WHy some rando laughed in a store should not be dwelt on. Why you are in a relationship you say is bad is what you should be reflecting on.

[mattclark242]

@BoopBoopBeep ok I don't know I want to try get out and meet someone she poor and on ssi and need food and thing. She a lot like my friends with benefits but I do not want sex with her and that all she would give me. She boss me around a lot and took me to other store I did not want go and she think I like it. She still try to get me come over But I will not do anymore. I hope she fine a boyfriend who have lot of money. She not good look. I like haveing some set next to me. I did not like all thing she want. I need set higher strander like a girl with a job that good look and can take care of her self and have more give than just being a girl and sex. I don't know is that good for reflecting on.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yes, you need MUCH higher standards.

[inhua]

most people would not help out a man in a bad relationship

proof is in the pudding

https://www.youtube.com/embed/XNrWuZV3jjw

[strateguy632]

i wouldn't get involved and for some people the benefits outweigh the problems.

[RavVid]

I have been in situations where that has occurred but no body did anything but be nice to him to compensate.

[Jamie05rhs]

I would -- and I have -- helped girls get out of bad relationships.
But I'm not trying to date them. And I don't want to.

[KrakenAttackin]

Unless I knew the person well I would stay TF out of it. There is no future in being a Captain Save-A-Hoe.

[jeffend888]

Nope. Not my problem, business or responsibility.

[Grovermint]

Nope. They made their bed, they should figure a way out.

[shades777]

nope, none of my business and don't make it my business

[grega239]

No.

If its bad, they can leave on their own

[JoshSimmer]

Yes, I would intervene if I have to.

[boobliker]

I would try!