This summer has been intense. I've seen my husband twice only since the end of June due to some legality issues where we live. He's supposed to come back this upcoming week but I've been feeling so down lately. I feel sad and depressed when he's not around. Why does it have to hurt this much? I don't even feel like eating or getting out of the bed.
I am not married but the first time I got rejected by a guy I loved, it hurt more than a punch in the face, the second time I got rejected by a guy I cared about, it hurt like a sore hand, the third time I got rejected a guy, it hurt like a mosquito bite. You feel difficult and challenged because this is a new situation you aren't used to, if your husband were to go on business trips on a regular basis, you would eventually adapt to the feeling of loneliness or dissatisfaction you feel and your emotions would return to their normal equilibrium the way it did before this forced separation caused you a feeling of emptiness in your life. Being separate from a loved one is like a weight in the gym, when your muscles get bigger, the weight becomes easier to carry. Your pain won't be there forever, it will get weaker as you adapt or if he is in your life again after a week, you won't need to adapt to being without him.
I feel you my husband is deployed right now. It's been depressing 😕
Yes it hurts so much !
Especially when you have nothing but sweet memories associated with all the time you spent with them...
6 months away from her when I was sent overseas for work was literally hell!!!
It's normal to feel down when you're not with the one you truly love.
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While I can't say I'm glad you're feeling this way, that's honestly really sweet. I'm glad you care for him to this extent. I hope you two are reunited as soon as possible.
I'm a 32 year old female who doesn't miss anybody lol
Dont worry he's been enjoying other women
You miss him?
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