Which gender cheats more?

[Pegases]

I say women, because women have more opportunities to cheat, and are better at hiding it because they have more incentive to protect their image.

Men

Women

It's about equal across the board

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7 mo

Men generally believe that women cheat more but are better at hiding it, and women generally believe men cheat more because we are biologically wired to spread our seed. The reality is, both genders cheat at similar rates, especially today. Women were never known to cheat as often as they are today because cheating came with bigger risks and shame. But today women have the same freedoms as men, and naturally exercise them just as often collectively.

[Anonymous]

You could argue women it from both ways. I'll say equal. But women are clearly never 100% committed to anyone. It's in their nature not to be. Whereas men evolved to be 100% committed to the group. That's one difference.

On the other hand, most relationships only exist because the women demand one. But you could argue they only want one for the benefits. So again are they loyal...

What I find interesting is how men are probably 10x hornier than women and yet statistically women cheat just as much.

[Pegases]

Interesting point. I'll have to chew on this one. Thanks for sharing.

[EmChronic]

Most women get with undesirable men. Or men with money. So this means that woman is 10x more likely to cheat.

However; BY NATURE, BY BIOLOGY. Men are actually more likely to cheat. Just based on the fact that you’re males. The mammal male of a species is more likely to step outside and leave and abandon the female. Because of his drive to spread the seed.
So BY NATURE, men cheat more.
But by Circumstance, AKA: the women choosing ugly partners. Those specific women are cheating more.

But if you want to think of who the main consumer of pornography is or the main consumer of prostitution is. ITS MEN. And with this in mind. MEN , are biologically more likely to cheat in a relationship given that opportunity.

[Pegases]

@EmChronic thing is, the same biology that was the incentive for women to seek monogamy, is no longer a factor due to birth control, and how much better women statistically make out after divorce. Not to mention, the government takes care of single mothers. Times have changed, modern women aren't like women of the past.

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

Cheating is a social construct. ﾠ

[Pegases]

This is very true.

[davado88]

bat waffles is a social construct. Dingleberry is a social construct.
mastacate

[OlderAndWiser]

The opposite sex is always the one that cheats more.

[Pegases]

It certainly played out that way here.

[AviatorTom]

Considering it takes a man and a woman to cheat, about equal makes sense. And many studies have supported that.

[Pegases]

Not exactly. While it takes two to tango as you eluded to, let's say a woman cheats on her husband, and doesn't tell the man she cheats with. Is the man she cheats with a cheater too? No, because he doesn't necessarily know she's married. And in my experience, most people that cheat do so by lying about their commited relationships. So one plus one doesn't exactly equal two here.

[Finchie40]

Nowadays I say women cheat more mainly because most women feel grass is greener on the other side , most women don’t really know what they want , they just assume they know what they want , thinking they are missing out on things so they are usually more vulnerable when they meet someone they feel has more status then their partner or feel that this other guy is more put together then her current partner Most cheating girls’ constantly compare her man to others , Guy’s mainly cheat if the girl he is with isn’t giving him intimacy and affection like she use to , she holds it over his head like he has to earn it from her , making a guy feel he isn’t loved or valued by her anymore and more than likely he feels she is getting it elsewhere , so a guy will cheat with another girl that makes him feel valued and wanted , Most guy’s don’t care about a girls status , like a girl does , Status is more important to her then anything , She will be drawn to another guy that she feels most other people
Look up to , Guy’s don’t give 2 shits about her status really , as long as she is beautiful to his eyes and she gives him the attention that he isn’t getting from his partner he will be more prone to cheat he is mainly just cheating for the sex and the feeling of being wanted , Girls cheat thinking the other guy is going to save her and love her not realizing he is just banging her for the sex

[Rei13]

Men are more likely to cheat than women are whenever you look up statistics. Gay male relationships have the highest rates of cheating and lesbian relationships have the lowest. In hetero relationships more men cheat. Not saying women can’t cheat and that there aren’t horrible women out there, it is just statistically more likely to be men. I hate the argument that women have more options to do so because if anything that just makes men look worse if they’re taking any opportunity they can get.

[Pegases]

None of the statistics I've seen support your claims, so please list your sources. The statistics that come from verified sources all seem to point towards cheating being about equal. The only flaw in said statistics is that one must be willing to admit they've cheated, and women have more incentive to protect their image. Next, the argument that women have more options is pretty simple. Men, are the pursuers, and women are most often the pursued. It's as simple as that. I think trying to make that argument into anything else is agenda based, which this article isn't intended to be.

[Rei13]

You can place yours too on your original post. I just googled statistics and it tended to be more men than women. Anyone is capable of googling/searching online if they have internet

[Pegases]

nypost.com/.../

[Anonymous]

In my experience, women my age cheat more than men my age. I've just seen too much of it in my personal life and family to think otherwise. I do think men cheat more as they get older, but in young adults I see it more in women.

The thing I see that bothers me is how people view cheaters differently depending on their gender. Men who cheat are considered selfish and driven by sexual needs, whereas women who cheat are generally viewed as victims of their partners' inability or unwillingness to satisfy their emotional needs, so they put the blame on the man again.

Anyone who cheats is doing it for selfish reasons. It's never justified.

[Pegases]

Very true. Its that double standard that was a big part of this initial question. Thanks for sharing.

[Anonymous]

So why TF did you ask the question if you knew the answer to it?

“ The reality is, both genders cheat at similar rates, especially today “

While degenerate men maybe wired to spread their disgusting seed. Most of them don’t get that privilege. I think most of them are supposed to die virgin. Like in the animal kingdom. Women are affected by any sex they have because potentially she can bear a child. But today. A woman can have sex with multiple men in one day and never get pregnant. In fact women can actually achieve multiple orgasms and take 7- 10 penises in one day. While a man can’t. A man is sadly only able to have 1 lonely orgasm and have 1 ☝️ lonely nut.

Not us women. If we want, we can have a sex marathon and have more than 10- 15 Penises in one entire day. In 24 hours. Something a man can’t do.

And also a woman is more likely to cheat if her man is undesirable, unattractive, ugly, or she’s just with him for his money.

[Pegases]

The first sentence was all I needed to read to know you have an anger problem that you can address in therapy, not w me. This is a social media site. People ask questions here to spark conversations and share different perspectives. Take your negativity elsewhere.

[Opinion Owner]

Why is that negative 😂 I’m answering your question to too

[Pegases]

What you're trying to do is gaslight, which is something narcissists attempt to do to avoid accountability. That won't work here. Go to therapy.

[Opinion Owner]

Gaslight because I’m speaking facts? Ok Brad Pitt. If you say so. You win.

Now fuck off with the erectile dysfunction and that tiny d-k that can’t please anyone 🖕

[Pegases]

Lmao you're beyond nuts 😂

[aquamarine321]

Women will say men cheat the most and men will say women cheat the most, plus there is no equal amount of cheating, there is a tip in the scale the fact is in the early days before women had any say or right to anything men use to cheat more but they where still faithful to there family in a sense of keeping them together despite his mistakes. Now since the 1960s and continues women began following men in cheating until now in the 2000s almost all cheat and this cheating almost all the time destroys the family and relationships and I believe we are not totally honest with our self and relationships, but all I can say is more women are cheating are cheating since the 1960s and this number continues to grow while more men stop cheating since the 1960s and continue, men stop cheating as they get older while women cheat the more younger and attractive they are

[EricSummer]

Statistically, men are more likely to cheat than women. However, up to age 30 it is still very similar between the genders. Male infidelity only really picks up later in life and by age 50 it is way higher than that of women of the same age.

However, about half of all men never cheat in their lives, so let's not over-generalize.

[Chevy1_kb]

to me men i have never cheated i have always been cheated on i have always appreciated love to have that certain boyfriend beside me to love and company have fun with go out with that i only love 1 man I've always been cheated on when they see how much i adore them and trust them and know I would do anything for them i get chested on my problem with men is that i fall in love to quick and become attached to soon that the pain doesn't go for a long time if he liked someone else i would rather he said he did and have respect instead of going behing my back and leaving me hinging on and thinking he loves me and only me but doesn't and wich is why I'm happy being free end single just now and sleeping with my ex we both are sleeping with each other obv

[genericname85]

im in social science and the facts are: men cheat more after marriage. women cheat more before marriage. and roughly 70% of divores are in iniated by women.

tho in social science we assess that via the survey of extradyadic behavior. so that research does typically not distinguish between "cheating" and open relationships

[OfMiceandMen]

I would say men between the ages of 20 and 40 cheat more because they want to sow their oats and women 40 and up because the guy they married and had children with eventually lets himself go and she wants something more.

So it pretty much comes out in the wash.

[djmzes]

it is hard to accept the truth when it is the lie you wish to hear.

Denying the truth does not change the fact.

[Pegases]

True.

[Katebfun]

Men throughout Centuries, literally received a pass to cheat and have multiple wives, or a girlfriend and Wife. Men are programmed to spread their seed.

[Pegases]

The "programming" when you boil it down is really just the fact that a man doesn't have to bear a child each time one spreads his seed. Men and women are on equal playing fields now that birth control is a thing.

[Mansearching]

Depends on what you call equal. Exactly same number as in 50/50? Or equal with margin of error of X% either way? I think its the ladder. Its with margin of error with it leaning towards men cheat more.

I'm just glad I'm not part of that. Never cheated never will. Have I had the opportunity, yes. Been offered, yes. But turned it all down.

[petitedollbabee]

Straight women will say men, straight men will say women, but ultimately it’s about equal. I voted men, because I’ve only ever been cheated on by males, so my vote is based on personal experience only.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Top 1-3 per men cheat a lot 😂😂😂there body count is crazy i think guy want to do it more but most aren't capable of in general (average men)..
Women (average women) have more opportunities in general but now they're acting on it 😂😂i would say 51 per guys n 49 women and i think women are cheating with same minority of men 😂😂✌️✌️

[Anonymous]

It's a statistical fact that women cheat more than men before age 30, and men cheat more than women after 30. Why? Because they can. People who have the power in the sexual marketplace are most likely to cheat. Women have that power before age 30, but the tables turn after that and men have the power between ages 30 and 50.

[EmChronic]

That’s not true. Only some men still look good in their 30s to 40. Past 40 you hit the wall as a male

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

@EmChronic you either get prescribed HRT or follow my guided meditation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

@EmChronic this 50 year old is bigger than 99% of those under 30

All it takes is a good diet, physical activity, and steroids. Or, my guided meditation.

[Opinion Owner]

@EmChronic It's about desirability, not just physical attractuveness. And it's a fact that women peak in desireability to the opposite sex in their early 20s and begin declining after that, whereas men only begin to hit tehir stride at 30 and are at their most desireable to women around age 40. Study after study has proven that fact.

www.smh.com.au/.../...ing-game-20120421-1xdn0.html

www.nytimes.com/.../...s-online-men-women-age.html

[EmChronic]

@RoοstеrBrеаst
That 50yo looks old and fucking gross to me. I’m 25 and I would never look in his direction.
And he’s lying if he says women in their 20’s look at him. 🤡
35+ you hit the wall 🖕

[Opinion Owner]

@EmChronic You say 35+ men hit the wall, and yet the behavior of most women in real life shows men within 10 years of that age are the most desireable men of all.

Why? Because women value a man's status and income more than anythinge else.

[ManOnFire]

Women. They cheat in their heart before they even do it physically. And as I always say, if people believe women can get sex or a relationship far easier than a man, then it is impossible to believe that men cheat more.

[Nikki1989]

There have been 1000s of studies on this and they always say it is about equal. I will say however, men think about doing it a lot more than women.

[Pegases]

That is true, there are multiple studies on this topic. But most women still uphold the myth that men cheat more. Why do you think that is?

[ronaldo75]

What's your source saying men think about it more? Women have been larger cheaters in the 1st world for about 20 years now. First off women statistically lie more on surveys than man AND women will always label cheating something else other than using the word "cheating". Situation, "entanglement", hook up, "kinda sorta hung out with an ex"

[Anonymous]

Which sex has a higher proclivity to cheat?

According to a growing body of research, many women in long-term relationships are sexually adventurous and have secret lovers.

https://nypost.com/2022/08/23/women-are-more-likely-to-cheat-than-men-heres-why/