I don’t know what to do
Girlfriend just revealed she doesn’t care about my boundaries?
I don’t know what to do
You guys are still early in and it’s a good time to really decide if she’s someone you can move forward with. Your boundaries are yours and yours alone to enforce, if she doesn’t respect them, whatever they may be then she’s not the one and you should move on.
I will say it’s hard to gain trust back by keeping tabs on her, she won’t feel good about that and probably not abide by your boundaries. That said, the right woman won’t cross them in the first place, which she did numerous times with the male friend. So what happens next between you two is your choice, but just know if you stay with her she probably will not be alerting you as to where she goes each time, and that’s just her as a person.
It does not matter if a person ignores boundaries if you enforce them. This only becomes problem when you have boundaries that you do not enforce.
Are they stupid boundaries? Does she have any?
Opinion
2Opinion
Someone who does not respect your boundaries does not respect you as a person. In your place, I would dump her and move on.
time to move on. she doesn't respect you
The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!
You can also add your opinion below!