So we have been dating for long enough. But I have seen my girlfriend doesn't wanna spend time with me or make any efforts to spend time with me. Lets say yesterday we didn't got to spend much time since of her chores then the next day if I wanted to spend more time as an recovery then she has her excuses of "Going there and wherever" or "Spending time with hobbies" and this just continues and I can't even get the required amount of time and its frustrating me now and She always says "You dont have patience or you dont know how to adjust". Is there any way to get her spend time with me like without talking to her about this because I want her to realize my value to her life herself. She clearly doesn't value me. And talking to her means nothing she will still continue this everyday.
if your girlfriend truly loves and cares for you, she'd find time to spend with you and reshuffle her entire schedule to accommodate for you
the fact this hasn't happened shows there's some suspicious shit going on
you might not have the evidence as of now but it's enough to warrant an investigation or at the very least withdraw yourself from her
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No matter she is cheating or not but maybe she doesn't love you. She might be in relationship because of some other reason/pressure/requirements. But ofcourse it is not love. Or she believes in some other fake definition of love.
maybe give her some space and time but yeah if she loves you she will make some effort
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she's cheating on you
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