What makes you sad is having somebody or not having somebody at all?

[justkoala]

Both of them make me very sad, it breaks my heart to lose someone I have, and then when I realize that I never actually had one, but I think not having someone doesn't hurt one's heart if there is no relationship with the other person anyway. What think about this situation?

[dynamicyandere]

Not having anybody can create a sort of dull ache in your heart, like a cold spot that doesn’t quite go away. You can learn to be happy and fulfilled in other ways, but periodically, you’ll feel that pain of loneliness.


It’s possible to live with that though, if you have enough going on in your life and you are surrounded by friends and are pursuing something you’re passionate about.


As for losing someone you’ve had, whether it be a break up or a death, it can create a major heartbreak and you may not feel like yourself for months.


So loneliness is like a dull, numbing, never-ending coldness that you can feel whenever you think about it. But it does sort of come and go.


And the heartbreak of losing someone is going to be intense pain and distress, that’ll drag on if that person was truly very close to you.


I think losing someone is the worse pain. Your good memories of them become painful memories because you can’t help but remember that they are no longer there. And what once was has been lost.


Even if everything was on good terms, it can leave you with bittersweet tears.

[BadApple69]

In life, we all need companionship, love, and physical touch. To not have these things in life is the greatest loss.
I am with a beautiful lady right now that I don't deserve and I know someday possibly soon she will be gone. But I cherish every moment I spend with her, every touch, and the love I feel from her.
When she is gone of course I'll be sad but I will also be so thankful for the time we spent together.
So for me the saddest thing is being alone with no memories of the love I have shared in life.
Take every chance, don't waste the possibilities.

[DizzyDesii]

I can relate. I actually like being single but i LOVE being taken. However i easily feel trapped after a while and begin to self sabotage to break free. I’m trying to fight that feeling and stop overthinking and just be happy, hopeful and progress towards commitment. Its a struggle. I strive to be with someone that i feel completes me and makes me happier than sad, but a lot of the time, I end up with people who just frustrate me and challenge me. I honestly would prefer the easy path so that I’ll want to stay with someone rather than choosing to seek the easy way out. But yea, i’m trying here. Just gonna hope he and I keep building up

[LiamJHayden]

I do not get sad either way. If she or I end it, it was not meant to be and prolonging it would be selfish. And when alone, I can focus on my hobbies and other interests until the next possible life partner comes along.

[shades777]

being with someone you dont actually want to be with is worst because your building something you dont want

[BigDog1989]

I feel like shit, but at least i feel something-In flames

[captain_voidwalker]

What makes me sad is when I open my fridge for a cold beer and realize I'm out of beer

[sheikalana]

My husband doesn't make me sad at all.

[Lokiion]

Neither of them