My boyfriend making me feel like the man in relationship (I'm a woman) what's your opinion on this?

[freizasbaldahhhead]

Am I wrong or what is going on? I took my boyfriend on a date to celebrate his birthday and did way more then he's ever done for me, I took him to hibachi, paid in full, bought the movies, paid in full. Bought him drinks, paid in full, because his birthday was the next day and his parents took him out but his mom hates me so as to not ruin his actual birthday I couldn't go (logic) but I got terribly sick after I dropped him home and I was even thinking about going to the emergency room but I ended up sleeping it off for a day and a half, which I told him I didn't feel well and was trying to recover, then he goes on about I don't love him, I don't do anything for him, I ignored him on his birthday, I'm a cheater, all this and I feel like I am the MAN IN THIS! I'm losing my mind and I just want to delete him from my life but it isn't that easy and I Hate it so much. He's 30 and lives with his parents, has a 9 year old daughter they take care of for him and he is divorced. I am a 25 year old childless woman I don't know why I'm doing this to myself. R. i. p.

[SueShe]

You surely must have realized much earlier that he was not the man he pretended to be. It would be a huge red flag to anyone that a 30 year old man with a 9 year old child behaves the way he does and still lives with his parents at that age. At least I would question his ability to raise a child.

The fact that his parents dislike you is not really something that should surprise you because they fear that you will take him and their grandchild away from them and that the child may love you more than she would love them.

He is simply immature for his age and has always been pampered in his life and simply does not know how to behave like a person of his age.

If you want to keep your sanity, then you do yourself a favor and separate from him. You will never do anything right in the eyes of his parents and he will always favor them over you. That is a sad fact.

[MzAsh]

He’s immature. This isn’t a phase. At 39, this is who he is and likely always will be.

[MzAsh]

I mean at 30.

[Anonymous]

How exactly does any of that make you feel like you're being the man in teh relationship?

[HelpfulWoman]

i mean, did you not see the signs immediately with his parents having to take care of the kid?

[freizasbaldahhhead]

😪😪😪 I don't know I think he thinks he just needs time to be able to establish a career but yeah it's pretty late in life

[freizasbaldahhhead]

I guess just wondering why would a guy be that way

[boobliker]

use it while you can girl

[Anonymous]

You guys work it out

[freizasbaldahhhead]

what's to work out? I do the most, am nice, caring catering to him and I can't even recover from a sickness without being attacked accused and labeled as something I'm not. He doesn't take care of me and he thinks he can do no wrong. Ever.