Am I in the wrong?

Question

I slept with my brothers friend. Me and this friend have a thing for each other and we kiss in front of my brother but nothing serious. His friend had asked him before we did anything if it was okay “can I sleep with your sister”. My brother really didn’t say anything kinda just shrugged it off but later on I was told he said yes. After all we sleep together and i keep getting bad feelings about if i’m going to ruin their friendship. So am asking if as a brother is it okay?

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

That's a tricky situation for sure. On one hand I get why you'd want to hook up with a guy you're into, and it seems like your bro gave the okay kinda. But it also could definitely mess things up between them long run. Bros before hoes as they say! If it starts getting serious between you it could create all kinds of awkwardsness you don't need. Plus what if you guys break up messy? Major drama. My advice - if it were me, I wouldn't wanna risk the friendship over a hookup. Bros are for life, girls come and go. Maybe find someone else to date outside their circle so it don't get complicated. Bros are important, don't wanna lose that over something temporary. Just my two cents, do what feels right but be careful is all!